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Hey everyone I wanted to know what your thoughts were on my situation. I have a rocky course through residency and I know my situation is very bad. I was wanting to know the honest truth regarding what my options were.
In Med school I wanted to do plastic surgery. I was top quartile 240+ on both steps, and had research. I did a 4th year rotation in vascular and liked it more so I switched out of plastics and applied gen surg right as interview season began. I didn’t have many connections and programs were wondering why I was indecisive so that did me in. I didn’t match so I did a prelim year with the intention of reapplying to gen surg. During my first few months of intern year, I was adjusting like any intern, making the occasional mistake, not efficient, deer in the headlights, etc. I was put on a ton of rotations which were nonoperative as compared to my categorical intern counterparts. i Got depressed and frustrated because I thought I wasn’t adjusting well, and I had a lot of depression from not matching. I started seeing a psychiatrist who thought that If I liked the OR and ICU but felt as if surgery was causing me more harm in terms of my depression, anesthesia would be a good option.
I ended up applying for anesthesia as a result because because of this and had no self confidence. My PD supported me because he told my my health is important and if it means switching then that’s fine. However, as the year went on, I became better at interning, I started developing self confidence and I genuinely enjoyed what I was doing even though it was not operative. And at the end of the year, my schedule got shuffled around due to personelle changes and I did a lot more operating, which was really fun. Even the smaller things gave me enjoyment. I told my PD that I was starting to regret switching prematurely and he told me I shouldn’t have been so finicky. I agreed and said I’d give anesthesia a shot.
I ended up matching to a good anesthesia program, and I have been doing it for almost 3 weeks now but I still really wish I was doing surgery. I know I’m
Experiencing growing pains. I just don’t enjoy reading the material as much as I did gen surg. I Miss even closing skin and port sites in the OR. I even miss clinic and consults to change up my day. I know I haven’t given myself time to adjust. I know that I’m flip flopping again. But to my credit I have had regret about not dual applying last year for months. I’ve never been more sure of anything in my entire life. All the free time in the world can’t make up for not feeling satisfied at work and I definitely had that last year as my mood and confidence improved and I don’t have that this year. I know people will say give it time, but I’d take a general surgery spot again if I could, even a prelim spot. I just miss it all.
I did ok on my ABSITE (+70%) and passed step 3. I know my end of the year feedback was good and attendings and upper level residents enjoyed working with me. I just want to know how bad my situation is and what I can do about it. All the free time in the world, and weekends off don’t make up for the satisfaction I had at the end of the day when I was doing gen surg. I am getting more hobbies outside of work but it doesn’t make up for how much longing I have to do surgery again.
I fully expect people to call me out on flip flopping and needing to grow a pair and just stick to something cause I can’t do this back and forth thing. I know I will be burning bridges entirely and I can’t go back after this. I know my home program won’t take me back cause I’m used goods and not reliable. I just don’t know how to navigate this situation without screwing things over for myself cause I don’t have a plan in place.
In Med school I wanted to do plastic surgery. I was top quartile 240+ on both steps, and had research. I did a 4th year rotation in vascular and liked it more so I switched out of plastics and applied gen surg right as interview season began. I didn’t have many connections and programs were wondering why I was indecisive so that did me in. I didn’t match so I did a prelim year with the intention of reapplying to gen surg. During my first few months of intern year, I was adjusting like any intern, making the occasional mistake, not efficient, deer in the headlights, etc. I was put on a ton of rotations which were nonoperative as compared to my categorical intern counterparts. i Got depressed and frustrated because I thought I wasn’t adjusting well, and I had a lot of depression from not matching. I started seeing a psychiatrist who thought that If I liked the OR and ICU but felt as if surgery was causing me more harm in terms of my depression, anesthesia would be a good option.
I ended up applying for anesthesia as a result because because of this and had no self confidence. My PD supported me because he told my my health is important and if it means switching then that’s fine. However, as the year went on, I became better at interning, I started developing self confidence and I genuinely enjoyed what I was doing even though it was not operative. And at the end of the year, my schedule got shuffled around due to personelle changes and I did a lot more operating, which was really fun. Even the smaller things gave me enjoyment. I told my PD that I was starting to regret switching prematurely and he told me I shouldn’t have been so finicky. I agreed and said I’d give anesthesia a shot.
I ended up matching to a good anesthesia program, and I have been doing it for almost 3 weeks now but I still really wish I was doing surgery. I know I’m
Experiencing growing pains. I just don’t enjoy reading the material as much as I did gen surg. I Miss even closing skin and port sites in the OR. I even miss clinic and consults to change up my day. I know I haven’t given myself time to adjust. I know that I’m flip flopping again. But to my credit I have had regret about not dual applying last year for months. I’ve never been more sure of anything in my entire life. All the free time in the world can’t make up for not feeling satisfied at work and I definitely had that last year as my mood and confidence improved and I don’t have that this year. I know people will say give it time, but I’d take a general surgery spot again if I could, even a prelim spot. I just miss it all.
I did ok on my ABSITE (+70%) and passed step 3. I know my end of the year feedback was good and attendings and upper level residents enjoyed working with me. I just want to know how bad my situation is and what I can do about it. All the free time in the world, and weekends off don’t make up for the satisfaction I had at the end of the day when I was doing gen surg. I am getting more hobbies outside of work but it doesn’t make up for how much longing I have to do surgery again.
I fully expect people to call me out on flip flopping and needing to grow a pair and just stick to something cause I can’t do this back and forth thing. I know I will be burning bridges entirely and I can’t go back after this. I know my home program won’t take me back cause I’m used goods and not reliable. I just don’t know how to navigate this situation without screwing things over for myself cause I don’t have a plan in place.