I/we do not want anyone working 50-60 hours on a regular basis or anything close. Occasionally, something sick comes in late in the day, we know the client is pressed for money or won't go to the ER. They came to us for help and we stay late an hour or two and help and they and the pet are helped. No one like to stay late, but sending the client away because you want to be "done" is not the right thing to do.
There are multiple reasons to send the client away that have nothing to do with wanting to be "done" and everything to do with medicine/treatment.
And not having money = euthanasia a lot to me. I tend not to be the kindest to those who don't have money, especially with a new puppy and will call them out on it. Had one today. New puppy, diarrhea, declined everything last time I saw them. Puppy still not doing well. Has $0.... literally told us she has $0, wants us to fix it. Point blank said "here are some clinics that might take payments, but really you might want to consider surrendering this puppy since you can't appropriately care for it." Sorry, not sorry. Animals cost money, especially puppies and society really needs to start understanding this. Until we make society responsible for the decisions THEY made, we will continue to get walked over.... i.e... please stay late for me because I got a puppy without being financially prepared for one.
If it is a situation where the owner simply "won't" or "doesn't want" to go to ER... tough ****. They are adults and as an adult, you sometimes have to do things you don't want to for the responsibility you agreed to take on. Don't want to be responsible and take your puppy to the ER, then don't own a dog. It is that simple.
And yes, I have had these very frank discussions with people. Some of them get mad, but many of them understand.
It boils down to...
"Your lack of preparation and planning does not constitute an emergency on my part."
I do not have to bend over backwards for anyone because they refuse to be responsible for something that is their responsibility. Now, for good clients, I will do ****ing handstands for them, but for the "off the street, I want your free exam and you to fix my dog because I don't have money". Nope, I am not a charity worker and I have been abused enough by those kinds of people.
The cases that I get burned out on the most and that have the most entitled, rude clients are these ones. The last minute, end of day emergencies. I have yet to have one thank me for staying late, not bitch about cost, not bitch about why it is taking so long, not call and complain instantly the next morning. Not a single one. They expect you stay late, help them for less, fix things magically and then they leave (often without paying or "realizing they don't have money"). These last minute emergency cases are what have burned me out before. Most of them are ungrateful, demanding dinguses. So yeah, I do get hesitant to "stay late just to help this person". Basically will not unless it is an established client.