As a physician, I'm always going to ask that my co-workers, staff and patients call me by my first name. Because my name isn't Doctor <<last name>>, it's Tim... and I want to know them as people and for them to know me as a person, not as a title.
... but I know I'll be pretty unique in that respect, and that's just fine by me 🙂
Many of the best doctors I know happen to have this policy, and it always just made sense to me.
When you're a physician (depending on your specialty), your patients might insist on calling you "Doctor" anyway.
Some patients want to be sure that the person taking care of them is a physician, and not just "Tim."
I'm always careful, especially on surgical services, to refer to the residents and the attendings as "Dr. <last name>," even though residents always insist that you address them by their first name. Patients (especially those going in for surgery) are really nervous and tend to freak out that someone other than a physician is going to operate on them.
When I first started rotations, I made the mistake of saying, "Oh, one of the residents, John, will come by and go over your paperwork." The patient freaked out and said, "I don't want a resident operating on me! I want a
real physician!"
🙄 Never made THAT mistake again.
What are you supposed to call PA's? I mean, they're technically not doctors but I have met a few that will get visibly upset when they don't hear doctor in front of their name.
😕
PAs work fewer hours, have less call, and pay less malpractice insurance.
They can't call themselves "Doctor," but that's not a terrible trade, in my opinion.
They might not be getting respect in other ways, and feel like they need
something to feel better about themselves. Hence, insisting that people call them "Doctor."