U can be like me work 100 hrs and still pickup kids , go to their awards ceremony, baseball games, tennis, cheer. I don’t recall any missed events. I even swing deals for someone to cover me for 3 hrs to go to their events. And I pay them back.
U make time. I literally got off the plane last night from 4.5 day quick Italy trip, worked for 6 hrs this morning (I was first out) and ran both kids carpools in the afternoon. That’s how u make time. The sahm moms are all drunk at the country club early and thanked me. Early Friday drinking in the neighborhood.
I have a colleague who complains about time. Says they will never get time back as the old saying goes.
Well u can always make time. Guy got his 6 year old twins bday party in Miami at 12pm. Got him 11k cash to do Sunday 24 hr call beeper. All guaranteed. Straight cash homie. Got him another $5500 beeper to take call Friday night (tonight) for 10 hrs. He didn’t want to do it. He could have worked (highly unlikely to work more than 1-2 hrs tonight). Driven to Miami at 10am for kids bday with baby mamma #2. Driven back up early Sunday to take call 2 hrs away. He’s got EV that can self drive him also even with his sleep apnea. He’s worried about falling asleep at the wheel. Sometimes u get lucky and put sunglasses on. The in cabin camera doesn’t detect if you are asleep with sunglasses on . It detects head movement more. This dude needs to make 850k just to break even with his 5 kids and 2 baby mammas and 3 homes one in north Florida one in south Florida and another home in Georgia. He needs the money.
Full time w2 Military doc who has his own mommy track govt anesthesia job (govt pays when he’s deployed or has training weekends) who does side gigs took those two calls the other doc didn’t want. He’s got 3 kids of his own. Someone always takes the cash. I seriously don’t know why this place is throwing cash left and right but we will ride the gravy train!
So u can do it all when u are full time or daddy doc and not miss a beat. There are many ways to the end game.
Now u may be dead sooner with one method over the other method. That’s another subject.