Oh my goodness... I am still in shock and find it hard to believe this. Please confirm if this is true. That is just plan wickedness. I am a firm believer of "what goes around comes around". Just wait and see what happens to the roommate that did that. Makes me wonder..How many premeds out there are capable of doing such heinous act? I will not be surprised if the number is pretty high.
Moral of story: Never trust anyone....Personally, I follow this rule always...I try not to expect much from people, because the heart of men is wicked.
Is your friend on sdn? I guess I just find this hard to believe.
Sorry to disappoint you but the
hearts of men are good.
Anyone who believes in what goes around comes around only does good because "it comes around" and therefore is not really good. You are a good person because a good person is the right thing to be. You are looking for excuses for yourself because you can't handle the fact that bad things happen. The truth is, to live in this world, you need to come to understand that bad things will and always will happen and it doesn't mean you should curl up into a ball. It means you get over it and keep living a good life.
I heard these wise words from someone on SDN: "Get over yourself, Hamlet."
Give people some more faith. People aren't bad. They're just deprived. It's obvious how easy it is to be misled or become "bad" but the fact is not everyone has as strong a will power as others do. I have patience though and I can wait for people to attain it. People that can't get this strong will power are just weak and need some time.
Don't get me wrong. People with strong will powers can get tempted too, we're all human.
I believe Samuel L. Jackson says it best:
"Hamburgers! The cornerstone of any nutritious breakfast. What kind of hamburgers? "
No wait, not that one. It's this:
"There's a passage I got memorized. Ezekiel 25:17. The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you. I been sayin' that **** for years. And if you ever heard it, it meant your ***. I never really questioned what it meant. I thought it was just a cold-blooded thing to say to a mother****er before you popped a cap in his ***. But I saw some **** this mornin' made me think twice. Now I'm thinkin': it could mean you're the evil man. And I'm the righteous man. And Mr. 9mm here, he's the shepherd protecting my righteous *** in the valley of darkness. Or it could be you're the righteous man and I'm the shepherd and it's the world that's evil and selfish. I'd like that. But that **** ain't the truth. The truth is you're the weak. And I'm the tyranny of evil men. But I'm tryin', Ringo. I'm tryin' real hard to be a shepherd. "
About the roommate, he is probably just a douchebag but give him some time. The fact that you got into med school should make you pretty happy and I'm sure there are ways around this situation. Besides, it's better than getting shot in the face.