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My girlfriend (who is 21) and I (just turned 23) have been together for 3 and a half years. However, none of our parents know that we are together. I need to give you some background to help explain why we have kept this a secret for so long. My brother used to date my girlfriend's sister for a few years. My parents and their parents knew about them and didn't like it. My parents thought that my bro could do better. So, it was a great strain on their relationship which eventually ended. My bro is now married to a girl from India and is quite happy. My girlfriend and I got together midway through my bro's relationship with her sister. I knew the parent's issues going in but it just happened.
So my question is should I tell my parent's knowing how they will react due to the history between my brother and my girlfriend's sister's relationship? For some reason, her family and my family aren't the best of friends. I don't know why they dislike each other. But what the hell should I do..I really just want to tell my parents but she is telling me that telling them will put a lot of strain on our relationship and it is better to tell them when we are sure of getting married.
My parents know my girlfriend and they really don't say anything about her. I think they know we are together but aren't certain.
Sorry if I confused everyone...Any thoughts??? Please help!!!
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So my question is should I tell my parent's knowing how they will react due to the history between my brother and my girlfriend's sister's relationship? For some reason, her family and my family aren't the best of friends. I don't know why they dislike each other. But what the hell should I do..I really just want to tell my parents but she is telling me that telling them will put a lot of strain on our relationship and it is better to tell them when we are sure of getting married.
My parents know my girlfriend and they really don't say anything about her. I think they know we are together but aren't certain.
Sorry if I confused everyone...Any thoughts??? Please help!!!
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