What to do about pets during virtual interviews?

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I have a cat, who I love more than anything, but I'm worried that she might mess up my virtual interview. I have been taking virtual classes and she has, for the most part, left me alone besides meowing randomly or asking to be pet. She mostly sleeps. However, if I leave her in the living room and close the door, she freaks out. Scratching, crying, meowing, knocking things over. Just being an overall distraction. My roommate said I can leave my cat in her bedroom, but I'm worried she might make a mess and I don't want to be responsible if she broke something that belongs to my roommate.

I'm sure a lot of people with pets have already conducted interviews so what did you do? Did everything go okay if you left your pet (dog or cat or bird, etc) in your room? Or did you have to leave them outside? Did your interviewers seem to care if your pet interrupted either by showing up or barking/making noise? I really want this interview to go well and I don't want to create trouble if I can avoid it.

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If I was and adcom and saw a cat I would give you a bonus point (two if it is a caracal but not every states permits them), I just love cats way too much...
 
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I'd just leave it in another room. Maybe you can put her in one of those travel carriers. The interview is maybe 1-2 hours, so no big deal. Don't risk it, trust me, an animal can behave perfectly for your entire life, then the hour of your interview, it decides to mix things up. Or maybe leave it with your mom or sibling if possible.

Agreed.

You also don't want to run the risk that the cat saunters into view and is just way too impressive to the interviewer. Can you imagine the stress in your home if the cat was accepted to med school but you weren't?
 
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Agreed.

You also don't want to run the risk that the cat saunters into view and is just way too impressive to the interviewer. Can you imagine the stress in your home if the cat was accepted to med school but you weren't?
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We have to go through implicit bias training for the onslaught of virtual interviews and this is legit one of the modules. They remind us that not everyone has the same social situation and can’t control their environment and to not let that influence us. They use examples like being able to hear kids, see pets, hear upstairs neighbors, or even applicants who have to interview in their cars or public spaces to get reliable internet.
So don’t worry about Dr. Whiskers, she isn’t going to keep you out of med school.
 
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Agreed.

You also don't want to run the risk that the cat saunters into view and is just way too impressive to the interviewer. Can you imagine the stress in your home if the cat was accepted to med school but you weren't?

Why is this a legitimate fear of mine? I can imagine it now, I get an acceptance letter but it's titled to my cat.

Big thanks to everyone for the helpful and humorous responses, I really appreciate it. It's been a stressful couple of days and I legit started tearing up because everyone is so nice. Thank you so much and good to luck to everyone applying!
 
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If I was and adcom and saw a cat I would give you a bonus point (two if it is a caracal but not every states permits them), I just love cats way too much...
Hell, OP, I'd accept you!

Don't feed the cat in the AM, or if you do, give it 1/4 of what you normally feed it.

Then right before the interview, give it a can of nice wet cat food. That should keep her busy. After she finishes, she'll be busy grooming herself.
 
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I have a cat, who I love more than anything, but I'm worried that she might mess up my virtual interview. I have been taking virtual classes and she has, for the most part, left me alone besides meowing randomly or asking to be pet. She mostly sleeps. However, if I leave her in the living room and close the door, she freaks out. Scratching, crying, meowing, knocking things over. Just being an overall distraction. My roommate said I can leave my cat in her bedroom, but I'm worried she might make a mess and I don't want to be responsible if she broke something that belongs to my roommate.

I'm sure a lot of people with pets have already conducted interviews so what did you do? Did everything go okay if you left your pet (dog or cat or bird, etc) in your room? Or did you have to leave them outside? Did your interviewers seem to care if your pet interrupted either by showing up or barking/making noise? I really want this interview to go well and I don't want to create trouble if I can avoid it.

I am interviewing for fellowships. My 6mo Boston Terrier Louie knows not to go inside my bedroom, but he will stand in the doorway, open the door slightly, and start whimpering/throwing toys inside the room. Every now and then an interviewer has noticed the puppy sounds and I tell them the truth. I think Louie has given me points, especially if I show him to the zoom crowds.

I would agree that if a program has someone who views your pet negatively, then don’t worry about it. It’s your familiar, and we are in special circumstances.
 
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I have a cat, who I love more than anything, but I'm worried that she might mess up my virtual interview. I have been taking virtual classes and she has, for the most part, left me alone besides meowing randomly or asking to be pet. She mostly sleeps. However, if I leave her in the living room and close the door, she freaks out. Scratching, crying, meowing, knocking things over. Just being an overall distraction. My roommate said I can leave my cat in her bedroom, but I'm worried she might make a mess and I don't want to be responsible if she broke something that belongs to my roommate.

I'm sure a lot of people with pets have already conducted interviews so what did you do? Did everything go okay if you left your pet (dog or cat or bird, etc) in your room? Or did you have to leave them outside? Did your interviewers seem to care if your pet interrupted either by showing up or barking/making noise? I really want this interview to go well and I don't want to create trouble if I can avoid it.
I didn't want to "meow-out" myself on SDN ... but might as well tell you right now:

I ... AM ... your interviewer ... and you'll be fine.

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There's a reason why it's called the MCAT
 
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I can imagine people renting cats or dogs and intentionally have them show up at their interview to look personal. This American animal loving culture is really bizarre to me.
 
I can imagine people renting cats or dogs and intentionally have them show up at their interview to look personal. This American animal loving culture is really bizarre to me.
Not just American, rest assured people in the rest of the world also love animals
 
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Not just American, rest assured people in the rest of the world also love animals
Other countries respect their animals. Many Americans love their animals more than their partners lol
 
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Other countries respect their animals. Many Americans love their animals more than their partners lol
Hey, my cat doesnt need to be told over and over to put his clothes in the hamper or put the toilet seat down
 
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I never understood having cats as pets. Dogs are popular in all the countries.
Historically it was to protect food storages from mice and people from other rodents who could spread diseases. Today it’s just fancy because many people find them cute. What I really don’t understand is why some people have spiders.
 
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Lmao the interviewer positively distracted by the cat through the entirety of the interview can only work in your favor. "I wonder what type of cat that was. He looked like he would get along well with my cats... Oh no, I've done it again. I didn't hear a thing that the poor girl said. Well, I suppose as that was my fault, I better just indicate that I liked her...Anyway, a yellow bow would look just handsome on him."
 
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My dogs are great, but they have a different conception of manners than most humans. My big guy, laying in his usual position in the background, farted so loudly on a recent work call that it felt like an earthquake. If you need humor during your interview, please be advised that I rent the Philly Slobber Dogs by the hour. I should warn potential renters, however, that the emanations that come from these dogs may peel the paint on your walls and your clothes will never be the same.
 

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Historically it was to protect food storages from mice and people from other rodents who could spread diseases. Today it’s just fancy because many people find them cute. What I really don’t understand is why some people have spiders.

Presumably to protect a corner of their house from flies
 
I wouldn't spend 'too' much time worrying about it. Obviously do your best to not make it a distraction, but your virtual interviewer likely has pets, kids and the same problem. A short cameo from a furry friend might even be endearing. We're hard wired to find animal lovers as good people.

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