Atny:
I do not believe that Cawolf is saying that you can not do better. He is cautioning you to not continue to rush and do the same thing that you have been doing. The same thing that has not work in the past. Saying that you will do better because someone else was doing X, Y, Z...Cough etc. without fully preparing will result in more of the same. If you want something different in your life, you have to act in a different direction than you have been...