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You are designed to be married. The biblical authors noted long ago (note I didn't say God, so don't turn this into theist/atheist thing) that it is not good for man to be alone.
I don't know what to make of this comment . You rock .Except for days like this, when after torturing myself to lose 9lbs down to 129, my husband kindly tells me that my butt is abt the same size & juicy-ness of a woman who easily has 40lbs on me (which every ounce of that 40lbs looks like she carries it all in her backside)....THEN i would say being alone is looking pretty damn good right about now!!! I am so doing a motorboat in the first baked good I come across.
Except for days like this, when after torturing myself to lose 9lbs down to 129, my husband kindly tells me that my butt is abt the same size & juicy-ness of a woman who easily has 40lbs on me (which every ounce of that 40lbs looks like she carries it all in her backside)....THEN i would say being alone is looking pretty damn good right about now!!! I am so doing a motorboat in the first baked good I come across.
A couple of things here. First, I didn't say men were bright. Second, and most important, you are losing the weight for you, or at least you should be. He likes you just fine the way you are. He sees your butt as being just about the right size...... You on the other hand see something entirely different.....
There should always be something to hang onto
There should always be something to hang onto
Is that you or aaliyah as your avatar?This post is getting hilarious...
I love sdn...
This post is getting hilarious...
I love sdn...
I'm liking this one ^ more and more
lol... AaliyahIs that you or aaliyah as your avatar?
Beautiful RIP.lol... Aaliyah
I like thin with curves.lol but it's true, right? Laying next to a bag of bones wouldn't feel very good would it?
lol... Aaliyah
OOp, your avatar is a little too hot for a forum like this
Like closet hotties?I'm sure there might be plenty of hot girls on SDN that we don't know about
I'm sure there might be plenty of hot girls on SDN that we don't know about
ok, how about a crazy perverted old man, disguising as a hot girl, trembling across SDN, luring susceptible young boy.
(this is just a hypothesis)
It is true. These males are intimidated by how much they assume I work. I do not discuss my pay with men but they have an idea when they come to my home. I don't know why but I am so happier being single. Sometimes I feel discourage because these men have hidden issues and agenda.
Or, maybe, they just don't like you, it isn't an issue with men, and you are just telling yourself this because you are in denial.
You are assuming, my friend. I am a good person, very caring and compassionate. Most of the men I date are intimidated because they fear a witty woman
Yep. If women intentionally or unintentionally limit themselves to those making more money than themselves, they will find a very small dating pool. Don't make income the reason you do or don't date somebody. Even a man with low income may save you money if he is able to fix things you can't fix and is a saver. Look for personality. Don't make people feel inferior (because they aren't).I've found that a lot of women that are successful blame men for not being able to "find a man." It's usually because they are doing something wrong. Figure out what that is. The more you blame men, the longer it will take for you to figure it out. It's usually one of two things. A lot of the time, they treat these men that they perceive as "intimidated" like they are inferior to them. Which won't fly. Why would you stay with someone that makes you feel inferior all the time? Or they have their standards too high. Which I guess if you are fine with someone that is less financially successful than you might not be the problem for you. But I know about a hundred pharmacists that are married to men that aren't as financially successful as them. And most of them never went through the "men are intimidated by me" nonsense some women seem to think exists.
Few men actually hate the ides of a woman that makes a lot of money. Women need to stop using it as a crutch and figure out the real reason why they can't keep relationships going.
Unless...in NYC. Here I feel like I am always on the lower paid side than most people I meet. LolYep. If women intentionally or unintentionally limit themselves to those making more money than themselves, they will find a very small dating pool.
In NYC, you probably are. Hopefully you can find someone willing to slum to the level of a pharmacist.Unless...in NYC. Here I feel like I am always on the lower paid side than most people I meet. Lol
Single male pharmacist here looking for female love and companionship. PM me if interested.
My coworker (female pharmacist) on dating- "They're either intimidated by you (and your salary) or they can't afford you."
Is this really common? I've been off the market for awhile, so I can't go by my own personal experience. Or maybe she's just dating the wrong type of guys.
Honestly if I heard someone talking about how men can't afford them I'd stay the hell away too. Almost a decade after this post and I bet she's still alone
It's the 21st century, I wouldn't mind a stay at home daddy
Reminds me of that one scene from Orange is the New Black heheIn my senior year of undergraduate, I met a guy who really wanted to be stay home dad while knowing that I will be a pharmacist. He never got second date from me.
I know times have changed but it was huge turn off for me..
In my senior year of undergraduate, I met a guy who really wanted to be stay home dad while knowing that I will be a pharmacist. He never got second date from me.
I know times have changed but it was huge turn off for me..
where the guy you ran into was just a loser lol.
I have read your original post..To your wife - " good job on marry up, it must be nice" lol
Intimidated by pharmacist salary? Lol an rph couple can barely afford a house in a decent neighborhood these days.
Really!!!! hahahahahaha....It depends on how you spend your money. I save mine to live comfortably. I live in a very nice neighborhood. Gated community. My house is all paid off. Sip on that.
If you are intimidated by a woman that makes more money than you, then you are stupid. Drop the ego and realize how much better your future family's life would be if both of your incomes were combined. Personally, I'd love to have a sugar mama.
Until your sugar momma wife starts buying trousers two sizes too small for you to emphasize your assets...