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I understand this line of thinking, and I'm sure I've been guilty of it at times. But for most of my life, my philosophy has just been to work very hard and enjoy the fruits of my labor. It's not that I'm getting an ego boost out of accomplishing things, it's just that I believe I should excel as much as possible and all parties involved will benefit.
Some people spend a huge amount of time on hobbies, which brings their own set of egotistical rewards. You appear balanced, "cool", athletic, or talented to other people when you excel at a hobby. For me, hobbies are great but I'd rather accomplish great things and/or contribute to my field than be the strongest guy in the gym or best golfer or whatever.
I guess I just take a hyper-rational approach to my free time, and choose to spend it on what will yield the greatest reward for me and my family, at risk of appearing less "balanced" to most. But as long as I can relate to my patients and friends, I don't personally see it as a problem. I have no existential stake in working extremely hard, it's just how I prefer to go about things. But again, I'm fortunate to have a spouse that supports and values this type of work ethic, so it may not be the same for everyone.
People who are very into their hobbies likely aren't doing it for the ego boost either. People pursuing difficult activities for the wrong reasons are not likely to continue doing them very long. I pursue my hobbies because I enjoy them, they keep me mentally and physically healthy, and I find that I work more efficiently and get more done when I take the time for them than if I had stayed at the bench all day.