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As a spiritual person myself, I believe it!Most spiritual people are capable of not judging someone for being an atheist, believe it or not. 🙂
As a spiritual person myself, I believe it!Most spiritual people are capable of not judging someone for being an atheist, believe it or not. 🙂
I had a student interviewer ask me thisInterviewer: so what do you do in your free time?
Me: PAINTING I absolutely love to paint in my free time
Interviewer: no kidding, I play with my artistic abilities in my free time as well!
This convo goes on for what seems like eons, and I'm kicking myself for mentioning it because I haven't "painted" since May...aka since my one and only undergrad Painting class ended
I wanted to face palm my dumb*** so badly. Not sure what made that nonsense come out of my mouth
Was talking to a coworker this week about his interview season since it's basically over, and asked him about his best and worst answers.
He said his worst was during a student interview at a prestigious school, and the conversation was on research experience. His previous job was as a research coordinator for pharma sponsored studies, and he made some comment like "it wasn't as gratifying because they were sponsor studies, which is why I like my current job and my bench work in college." The student asked him to elaborate on why the research wasn't gratifying.
"Well you know, since they are sponsor studies, I had no hand in designing the research."
Interviewer: "Okay.."
(Thinking it's bad because he's disparaging clinical research) "Well no I mean its still good, its just like.. it's like I adopted it rather than having my own research, so it's, you know, hard to be as invested since it isn't mine or my team's original work."
Student interviewer responds, "Okay, well my sister and I are adopted."
"..."
He hasn't heard back yet. lol.
Was talking to a coworker this week about his interview season since it's basically over, and asked him about his best and worst answers.
He said his worst was during a student interview at a prestigious school, and the conversation was on research experience. His previous job was as a research coordinator for pharma sponsored studies, and he made some comment like "it wasn't as gratifying because they were sponsor studies, which is why I like my current job and my bench work in college." The student asked him to elaborate on why the research wasn't gratifying.
"Well you know, since they are sponsor studies, I had no hand in designing the research."
Interviewer: "Okay.."
(Thinking it's bad because he's disparaging clinical research) "Well no I mean its still good, its just like.. it's like I adopted it rather than having my own research, so it's, you know, hard to be as invested since it isn't mine or my team's original work."
Student interviewer responds, "Okay, well my sister and I are adopted."
"..."
He hasn't heard back yet. lol.
Yea I honestly thought it was a good answer but it was just a horribly unlucky situation with the interviewer. Also, that is the just answer that he told me, it might have been a little more blunt and not as well explained in the interview, provoking that kind of response lolThe initial response sounds like a completely reasonable answer to me, even the adopted part sounds like a good way to put it. It just sounds like he got unlucky with the second response and that the student interviewer was kind of a jacka**. Honestly, I probably would have let a professor or admission counselor know about that, as that seems somewhat hostile and I wouldn't want a misunderstanding like that to affect my chances.
I mean I honestly don't think that's a bad answer. Shows that you're being honest and you try to learn from your mistakes. Good luck!Interview at top 5 medical school ~1 week after girlfriend breaks up with me:
Interviewer: "Tell me about a mistake you made"
Me: "I was very busy and I didn't make time for my girlfriend, so she broke up with me"
(Why did I use that answer, why!?!?!?!?!?!?!)
Result: TBA
Yea I honestly thought it was a good answer but it was just a horribly unlucky situation with the interviewer. Also, that is the just answer that he told me, it might have been a little more blunt and not as well explained in the interview, provoking that kind of response lol
Honestly, those are the worst interview questions.Interview at top 5 medical school ~1 week after girlfriend breaks up with me:
Interviewer: "Tell me about a mistake you made"
Me: "I was very busy and I didn't make time for my girlfriend, so she broke up with me"
(Why did I use that answer, why!?!?!?!?!?!?!)
Result: TBA
I mean I honestly don't think that's a bad answer. Shows that you're being honest and you try to learn from your mistakes. Good luck!
Bruh excuse me? LMAO*I point to my lower leg*
Me: "I broke my femur freshman year of college and it was tough."
*awkward silence*
Interviewer: "Femur?"
Me: "Fibia, sorry"
(later realized I meant to say fibula)
Result: Waitlisted
NEVER guess the relationship of someone to someone else. It's not just about gender, either.Me: Oh I see your granddaughter likes Aaron Rogers and the Packers.
NEVER guess the relationship of someone to someone else. It's not just about gender, either.
I was sent to bring a mother and her newborn baby to surgery because the baby was having an imperforate anus procedure done. I can’t quite remember the name but it was one of those that could be a boy or girl but I hadn’t really thought about it. I said that HE was really cute and the mom politely corrected me, “she.” But for some reason, in my exhausted state, I decided I had to fumble through why I said HE instead of SHE. About 45 seconds later I called HER a HE again.NEVER guess the relationship of someone to someone else. It's not just about gender, either.
I was sent to bring a mother and her newborn baby to surgery because the baby was having an imperforate anus procedure done. I can’t quite remember the name but it was one of those that could be a boy or girl but I hadn’t really thought about it. I said that HE was really cute and the mom politely corrected me, “she.” But for some reason, in my exhausted state, I decided I had to fumble through why I said HE instead of SHE. About 45 seconds later I called HER a HE again.
This probably belongs in “less informed pre-meds,” but the point is, don’t assume gender, and if you do, don’t feel the need to explain why. Fml
I could see that being very annoying at first hahaThere is apparently no gender in Tagalog. Every time someone from PI would talk about our girls, they would switch back and forth between he and she. All the Filipino nurses I worked with did the same thing. You get used to it, but it confused the hell out of me at first.
Wow! You walked right into that trap and shot yourself in the foot. I don't know how lethal the wound will be. But it's done, over, and now on to the next II!. . . I was going pretty strong on interviews and then this happened.
I was talking about how I love building meaningful relationships with people. Then she asked if this had helped me stay in touch with friends after college. I could only think of one friend that I stayed in touch with and only used him as an example.
She then asked. . . is that the only friend?
In my befuddled state, I said yes (as if I have no friends. . . words are hard)
Then on the drive home, I thought up a long list of those that I stay in touch with.
I won't know the results for a while.
I think your answer was betterThe two interviewers at this medical school were both white male, 65+ years old. It was in a conservative state (not sure if it matters), and I'm from California.
Interviewer: What do you think will start the next war?
Me: Wow, I don't know. I used to be very updated with the latest news, but I have been staying away from a while now because I've been toying with the idea that humans can't physically absorb all the news sources out there. We're not wired to empathize with so much information and I think it could be one of the contributors to mental health. Um, oh crap I didn't answer your question. Um..... SOCIAL MEDIA...
***At this point, the interviewers just blinked curiously at me for several long seconds. Clearly I didn't consider that my audience may have a different perspective on social media... (but I also honestly just spewed something out of my mouth in hopes that my brain will catch up with a good reason later)
....5 seconds later....
Me: Because social media causes our opinions to become more polarized due to group think???
Interviewers: Okay, just FYI most of the other candidates said something more along the lines of scarce resources such as food, water, etc.
***GOD of course. They wanted something more intelligent and less abstract.
Me: Oh, okay...
I think your answer was better
HAHA thank you. I guess it depends on what the interviewer was looking for: a candidate who is very politically savvy? Or a candidate who thinks out of the box? I think ideally they'd want a candidate who is BOTH but I clearly demonstrated that I was only one of them.
I think that the interviewer was looking for someone who has a modicum of knowledge of current events, and you really bombed the question. I mean, it's OK, sort of, to say up front that "I don't follow current events" [which is not exactly complimentary] but you just started babbling. They didn't ask why?, they asked for something totally different.HAHA thank you. I guess it depends on what the interviewer was looking for: a candidate who is very politically savvy? Or a candidate who thinks out of the box? I think ideally they'd want a candidate who is BOTH but I clearly demonstrated that I was only one of them.
I think that the interviewer was looking for someone who has a modicum of knowledge of current events, and you really bombed the question. I mean, it's OK, sort of, to say up front that "I don't follow current events" [which is not exactly complimentary] but you just started babbling. They didn't ask why?, they asked for something totally different.
As a public service, here's a credible answer:
North Korea and the US and/or South Korea
Hamas and/or Hezbollah and Israel
Iran and any of the Arab nations
Iran and Israel
India and Pakistan
China and any of the Southeast Asian countries (I'll let you figure out why).
Russia and Ukraine
Russia and China
Venezuela and the US
The two interviewers at this medical school were both white male, 65+ years old. It was in a conservative state (not sure if it matters), and I'm from California.
Interviewer: What do you think will start the next war?
Me: Wow, I don't know. I used to be very updated with the latest news, but I have been staying away from a while now because I've been toying with the idea that humans can't physically absorb all the news sources out there. We're not wired to empathize with so much information and I think it could be one of the contributors to mental health. Um, oh crap I didn't answer your question. Um..... SOCIAL MEDIA...
***At this point, the interviewers just blinked curiously at me for several long seconds. Clearly I didn't consider that my audience may have a different perspective on social media... (but I also honestly just spewed something out of my mouth in hopes that my brain will catch up with a good reason later)
....5 seconds later....
Me: Because social media causes our opinions to become more polarized due to group think???
Interviewers: Okay, just FYI most of the other candidates said something more along the lines of scarce resources such as food, water, etc.
***GOD of course. They wanted something more intelligent and less abstract.
Me: Oh, okay...
No and no@Goro has anyone accidentally called the COMLEX the "Complex" at an interview? Asking for a friend....
Edit: Asking for myself. Am I toast? My interviewer didn't seem to care.
(During a mock interview)
Interviewer: Tell me about yourself.
Me: Could you elaborate on specifically what you want to know about me?
I was told that was the worst possible answer to give.
(During a mock interview)
Interviewer: Tell me about yourself.
Me: Could you elaborate on specifically what you want to know about me?
I was told that was the worst possible answer to give.
The fact that you guys struggle with this question and overthink it to this degree speaks volumes. Ha ha holy freaking awkward. Have a conversation and act like a normal human being.