SF also has a ton of lesbians, the gays balance out pretty well on both sides. San Jose is obviously a better choice but really, the distance between the two is just a Tinder setting away and SF is preferable to San Jose IMO for day-to-day life
Isnt STL one of the most dangerous cities in the US?
Only relevant if you can actually score, otherwise it's just a tease.
The winters are extremely long, the darkness in the dead of winter is awful, the politics (lots of far right conspiracy theorizing out here) are crazy, the young population isn't huge, the food scene is pretty awful compared to other cities I've encountered of similar size, flights out of Anchorage get expensive, there is an abundance of homeless who are rather aggressive (only places I've been attacked/chased by homeless are Anchorage and Honolulu), and there really isn't much of a culture (imo). Oh, and for things I like specifically, the rock climbing isn't great (most of the rock here isn't well suited to climbing), glaciated mountaineering requires 4-5 days of travel at a minimum before you even start your ascent, and for some reason people leave their dog **** absolutely everywhere on most trails. Oh, and one of the most beautiful glaciers around cannot be accessed unless you go through one specific company because while the glacier itself is public property, some dingus bought all the property around the glacier and increases the price for access as often as he can and the state doesn't do **** because "muh freedom."
New Jersey is the armpit of America with raging hidradenitis refractory to medical management. Surgical excision will be our only cure to solve NJ. Or an Earthquake that splits it off into the sea like California, but the difference is people will still fly to California and it'll be the new Hawaii. NJ will become our leper colony.
Hahaha. Then you were doing it wrong . I lived there for 10 years .
Yes, but the vast majority of violent crime is concentrated in very specific areas. It's not the war zone that some of the coverage makes it out to be. lol I lived in the city as a single female for years, and the only issue I ran into was having a couple packages stolen off my front porch. That being said, I also took all the normal precautions... not walking alone at night, waiting to park if someone was milling around, etc. Package thefts and car break-ins were the most common crimes in my neighborhood. Some of my neighbors just took to leaving their car doors unlocked and not keeping anything of value in there to avoid a smashed window. There were 3-4 violent crimes in my neighborhood while I was there, but that was over 7-8 years. I think that's what you see in most areas of the city... violent crime definitely happens, but it's sporadic.
It's more ideal to avoid places with higher concentrations of doctors. "Standing out" is a real thing.
Middling
I could only hypothesize Miami would have to take home the prize.
For those that are looking for the opposite in bold (ie conservative people) consider Ft Worth. Good city, clean, and not very cold. You do have to deal with the hot summers but you can do stuff in the heat, not during a blizzard. Also, ft worth is cheap, has the big city feel without being lost, and you're close to a major airport hub so you can essentially go anywhere without connecting flights
6 feet tall? What happens on the actual date when they see you’re 5’7?
yes to 2/3. no to 1 and 4.
Legit bad advice.
Lol 0 chance it's made a difference. Putting physician or doctor (once you are one) will help veryy marginally but even that's a stretch.
I agree. It feels like it made it difference but probably not. It's your overall package really. Just like having a Mercedes/expensive car isn't going to get you laid, but a chick I met off a dating app told me "oooooh nice car, German engineering" when I was leaving her place. Thought that was pretty funny.
Pretty much. Though looks are a very dominant factor and continue to be bigger factor year by year actually. It's a lot harder than 10 years ago for example.
This sounds like heaven to me.
To which other “major cities” are you referring to when you say their bars close at 8-9pm? Tulsa!? 😂
I'd first decide how red or blue of a place you want. If you're blue, Boston is great. And you can find cheap rent. Tons of universities. Tons of young people. Tons of arts, music, theater, etc. If you're red, maybe somewhere in Texas or Tennessee.
No yeah Boston is great 100%, the problem is just matching there lmao
Have you been to Miami?
Go to Ft. Lauderdale/Miami again if you want to see beautiful chics. These latinas are hmmm.
