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I second this. I got an email from a top site where I couldn't get a good read on what they thought about me during my visit. The email didn't indicate how much they liked me as a candidate or how they'd rank me, but it was excessively pouring on how much they enjoyed meeting me/appreciated I came to visit. Then it said that they received my thank you email and would pass on the sentiments accordingly. At first I thought "oh wow, this is unexpected. Maybe they really did like me and that's so great because I want them to like me!" However, I'd actually send a thank you CARD and not an email, so upon reflection, I'm thinking it was a generic albeit flattering message they sent to everyone (or at least people who sent thanks). So, with everything in this process, it seems best not to read into anything.I've had a site say some similar things to me, in person though, which was surprising.
My advisor warned me about this so I'll pass it along to y'all- this sorts of comments can me really misleading and easy to misinterpret. We had a great student who received communications from one of her top sites which she (and my advisor) felt conveyed that they were ranking her #1. She ranked them first and matched with a different, lower ranked site. The site who sent her the emails acted like they sent similar ones to everyone they ranked. So just be cautious, and don't change your rankings based on this feedback because it may be meaningless.
However, if you're getting emails that strongly suggest they are ranking you, and ranking you highly, that seems more clear cut and also not what sites are supposed to do. Part of me feels happy for you guys who are getting that positive feedback, but part of me feels sad that you have to get even more emotionally toyed with in this process. I would think it's hard not to be influenced by or feel pressure with feedback like that!