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Its not that you can't afford it, it is because you choose not too. Unless you have some massive debt, obigations, or bunch of ex wives, there is no reason a doc who worked so hard for many years, sacrificed the best years of his/her life can't buy a 70K car making 400K.
Many people die multi millionaires who spend hours clipping coupons b/c mentally they can't get over the hurdle of spending money.
I have a relative whose household income is prob 300K+ who makes it miserable going to vacations with. When we go buy ice cream, she buys one order for her 3 teenage kids. We go to eat and when its her turn to pay, she waits for someone to pick up the check.
Her house needs some serious renovation but has analysis by paralysis for the past 5 yrs. She will die a multi millionaire but makes people around her miserable including her kids/husband. What she doesn't understand is when she dies, someone is going to spend her money. Maybe penny pinching truly makes her happy..... but I think its a mental disorder to not spend money to enjoy life after all of your hard work/sacrifices. She would spend 5 hrs driving around town to save a few bucks but really she lost 5 hrs of her life saving a few bucks.
Everything in life is a balance. Both extremes of spending are a mental disorder.
Many people die multi millionaires who spend hours clipping coupons b/c mentally they can't get over the hurdle of spending money.
I have a relative whose household income is prob 300K+ who makes it miserable going to vacations with. When we go buy ice cream, she buys one order for her 3 teenage kids. We go to eat and when its her turn to pay, she waits for someone to pick up the check.
Her house needs some serious renovation but has analysis by paralysis for the past 5 yrs. She will die a multi millionaire but makes people around her miserable including her kids/husband. What she doesn't understand is when she dies, someone is going to spend her money. Maybe penny pinching truly makes her happy..... but I think its a mental disorder to not spend money to enjoy life after all of your hard work/sacrifices. She would spend 5 hrs driving around town to save a few bucks but really she lost 5 hrs of her life saving a few bucks.
Everything in life is a balance. Both extremes of spending are a mental disorder.