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OxenFoxen said:
How come no one is setting me up :cryi:
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Alco_Palco said:
wait but would people date a 20+ year old who never dated before or nah?
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A) Never too late
B) I am living proof of this, and my first GF was also a first time dater...
Just be confident, and upfront!
 
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Alco_Palco said:
wait but would people date a 20+ year old who never dated before or nah?
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There are more of us than you think! My current (and first) relationship started within the past year as a 23 year old. Also found my bf through bumble!
 
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Alco_Palco said:
wait but would people date a 20+ year old who never dated before or nah?
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Yes. Most of the crushes I've had are with guys who haven't dated.

Nothing as attractive as a mildly socially awkward, intelligent, sometimes sporty, family-oriented type of guy.
 
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tessellations said:
There are more of us than you think! My currently relationship started within the past year as a 23 year old. Also found my bf through bumble!
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Low-key bumble has been a hidden gem

Sunbodi said:
Yes. Most of the crushes I've had are with guys who haven't dated.

Nothing as attractive as a mildly socially awkward, intelligent, sometimes sporty, family-oriented type of guy.
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Rip that's me in a nutshell
 
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u_raptor said:
Low-key bumble has been a hidden gem


Rip that's me in a nutshell
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Bumble never disappoints. My issue with dating apps is I hate small talk, so I just come out swinging to see what kind of responses I get (no nothing sexual mostly hot topics such as politics and other controversial stuff). Meeting people in person tho>
 
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thegrind33 said:
Bumble never disappoints. My issue with dating apps is I hate small talk, so I just come out swinging to see what kind of responses I get (no nothing sexual mostly hot topics such as politics and other controversial stuff). Meeting people in person tho>
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Small-talk is my downfall. Luckily I found someone who will happily talk your ear off
 
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u_raptor said:
Small-talk is my downfall. Luckily I found someone who will happily talk your ear off
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+1 and I found someone where the silence is comforting and not awkward. Very important imo
 
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This thread has taken a lovely turn.

But back to flaws...I am so bad at small talk! I will avoid it at all costs if I can. When I can’t avoid it (like in an Uber or Lyft), I just tell myself that it’s practice for talking to patients one day :laugh:
 
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Sunbodi said:
Yes. Most of the crushes I've had are with guys who haven't dated.

Nothing as attractive as a mildly socially awkward, intelligent, sometimes sporty, family-oriented type of guy.
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thegrind33 said:
Bumble never disappoints. My issue with dating apps is I hate small talk, so I just come out swinging to see what kind of responses I get (no nothing sexual mostly hot topics such as politics and other controversial stuff). Meeting people in person tho>
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u_raptor said:
Small-talk is my downfall. Luckily I found someone who will happily talk your ear off
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imbesrs said:
+1 and I found someone where the silence is comforting and not awkward. Very important imo
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Honestly, someone on SDN ironically suggested using dating apps and go on dates to practice conversational skills for interviews and I unironically took their advice. It has worked very well.
 
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My biggest flaw is that im really bad at staying focused on the task at hand. My mind deviates like crazy into some wild tangents or hypotheticals that end up being more entertaining than analyzing qpcr data thats due tomorrow for work and thats what Im supposed to be doing now get me off of sdn
 
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Flaw: does not look like larry david lol
 
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Sunbodi said:
Yes. Most of the crushes I've had are with guys who haven't dated.

Nothing as attractive as a mildly socially awkward, intelligent, sometimes sporty, family-oriented type of guy.
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and 99 others said:
I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Anyone looking for a bf, if you have a WARS score of S, I WILL date you
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Sorry ladies, I am taken ;)

But let me point you towards my boy @Orangekiwi
Orangekiwi said:
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Bruh....She is throwing herself at you
Sunbodi said:
Is this you my dear? :love:
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Bruh, she is still on board
imbesrs said:
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It’s gotta!
Orangekiwi said:
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BRUH
tessellations said:
Can confirm for any and all interested parties, @Orangekiwi does NOT look like Larry David.
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He looks more like a Macho Bieber mixed with Joe and chandler from Friends.

Edit: Like a solid cute guy
 
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Is that meme shia? Before his box experiment? After?
 
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premed20172017 said:
Shia was in a Nike add? What?! When? During his Indiana Jones failure?
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Jk research has shown it was just a motivational speech. I thought it was Nike for some reason, likely bc of their slogan
 
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My flaw: Procrastination as a method of self-preservation to avoid failure (very insecure) which then leads to circumstances that I can blame my failure on rather than myself. o_O
 
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Wow... initially reading this thread I thought it was just going to be about flaws, but then it turned into sdnSingles.com

If any of you need advice on cooking rice or stovetop popcorn those are some of my strengths. Also, I've been married for 7 years this Saturday so I guess I've been on a few dates.

biggest weakness is that my grades and skills at video games are inversely proportional and I am REALLY good at video games.
 
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Cornfed101 said:
I've been married for 7 years
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Joining the 5 year club here in a few weeks! Is it a flaw? Yes. The flaw was in our hearts - a little crack. But the misses made herself right at home in that crack and made our flaws beautiful.

And to the rest of you on sdnsingles.com well....You just go ahead and have some self love for your flaws.
 
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Mr. Dr. Prof. Patrick said:
Joining the 5 year club here in a few weeks! Is it a flaw? Yes. The flaw was in our hearts - a little crack. But the misses made herself right at home in that crack and made our flaws beautiful.

And to the rest of you on sdnsingles.com well....You just go ahead and have some self love for your flaws.
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Yes, and the fact that my wife makes me a much better person. She made me stop playing video games... I didn't like it at first, but then when I got a 4.0 in my post bacc and a 516 on the MCAT I realized it was good advice
 
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Cornfed101 said:
I didn't like it at first, but then when I got a 4.0 in my post bacc and a 516 on the MCAT I realized it was good advice
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That is funny, the exact opposite happened with me. I stopped playing video games at 19, but I ended up focusing TOO much on work and the military and not enough on my wife and school. She made me start playing games with her (just Minecraft, Diablo, and split screen shooters). But the emphasis on guaranteed family time really helped me learn to be grounded and how to prioritize. GPA went from 3.4 to 4.0 and the MCAT turned out well
 
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imbesrs said:
What games did you play when you played
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Primarily FPS and role-playing. I was outrageously good at Halo (I still am). I also love everything that Bethesda makes like Oblivion, Skyrim, Fallout. The reason my wife put down her foot is because I was also really into mobile games like Vainglory and Hearthstone. I would often play when I should have been spending time with the fam...
 
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Hm:
---Anxious little bean. ( Hello nausea XP)
---Ruminating.Ruminating-ruminating-ruminating
---Likes makeup too much. Wears too much sometimes at inappropriate times. Maybe I'm vain? Idk. I hate using the word " vain" because I feel like vanity is a farce to make women feel bad about loving themselves but I sometimes feel like I am actually vain.
 
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Cornfed101 said:
Primarily FPS and role-playing. I was outrageously good at Halo (I still am). I also love everything that Bethesda makes like Oblivion, Skyrim, Fallout. The reason my wife put down her foot is because I was also really into mobile games like Vainglory and Hearthstone. I would often play when I should have been spending time with the fam...
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Halo 3 custom games was the GOAT

change my mind
 
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Alright, so.....I think these past 14 hours of this thread have shown us quite a few flaws in SDN personalities without needing to directly state them lol
 
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