Certified ROL a few hours before deadline... tough decisions. Ranked 14 programs. Received no correspondance from 13 of them and an explicit "ranked to match because you are within our top x ranks for x positions". This was unsolicited. For the sake of privacy, I will not reveal which program this is or where it stands on my ROL. But I thought I'd share to make the point that such "ranked to match" communications exist, but are uncommon and have to be downright spelled out to mean you are guaranteed a spot if you rank them #1. Otherwise, it could very well mean simply that you are ranked within their usual number needed to fill their spots. The latter could be the bearer of broken dreams.
So it's a highly specific event (yes, it brought a soothing sense of security after the last seven months) but not sensitive at all. Or else, I'd have to interpret that the other 13 think I suck based on their silence. Cognitive distortion is tempting, isn't it?
My understanding is, no rules were broken, as professions of love from both parties are legal as long as no questions are asked about who else you've been seeing.
I chose not to give an answer to said correspondance before deadline. In fact I contacted no one post-interview.
I also applied very broadly to start with and received many more rejections than interview invitations, being a candidate that doesn't quite fit neatly in the box. In fact, this is my second year in the match. Last year I only interviewed at one place after 15 late-ish applications.
So it seems that I just may be ok. Message to future applicants: go all out. Step out of your comfort zone. Be a little bold. Learn to live with uncertainty for a while.
Learn to handle rejection.
It'll make you savor it all the more when you are told you matched.
Good night, and good luck.