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-If & How You’re Staying Sane: Jogging with a soft j. I believe the j is silent.
#samesies (for the j is silent)
-If & How You’re Staying Sane: Jogging with a soft j. I believe the j is silent.
SAME! What date did you select, if you don't mind me asking???Full Site Name: Northern Arizona VA
-Track: General
-Invite or rejection: Invite!!
-Date of Notification:12/05/17
-How You Notified: Personal email
-Interview Dates offered: 1/5, 1/19
SAME! What date did you select, if you don't mind me asking???
I actually returned the metallic gold tassel today 🙁 . Now that I've started looking into and booking travel I was like "OMG THAT $3 GOLD METALLIC TASSEL HAS GOT. TO. GO, I WILL SAVE SO MUCH MONEY BY RETURNING IT." Then I went to TJ Maxx and bought a profesh tote bag...despite the fact that I had already purchased one from Target... so now I have yet another Target return. Because I make excellent life choices.LOL your retail therapy purchases crack me up! I've also totally bought a bunch of random things online that I've convinced myself I *need* over the past monthI rarely do retail therapy, but I have to admit that fun packages coming to my door have been giving my days some much-needed boosts lately! I'm now waiting on "Meowy Christmas" leggings with kittens in Santa hats all over them
Ooh I also meant to share on here that I joined #accunation (or was it #accupressurenation?) It's not as magical for me as it seems to be for some of you (I think I need to stop sitting 10-12 hrs/day and actually do some yoga and exercise to truly heal my back 🤔) but it does feel kinda nice in a really spiky way?So thanks for that tip everyone! ...are we sure you all don't get commissions on those?
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NOOOOO! I picked the 19th 🙁. It would have been awesome to have an interview buddy!The 5th! You??
I'm starting to wonder about how much this is random too...not that it makes me feel better about my interview-to-rejection ratio. I thought I had a good breadth of experience, but now I'm wondering if it was too broad for the specific area I'm aiming for? Did I not make a good enough case for how my breadth of experience ties in? Was one year in the setting I want not enough? Or was it too much, and now sites think there's nothing left for me to learn there? I really wish I could get feedback from TDs on why I was rejected from sites that I thought would be an excellent fit...I think there could be other factors at play, too. I have zero VA experience and unexpectedly received invites at every VA I applied to. So I don't think "fit" necessarily means previous experience, but more so how your previous experience and training objectives interact to predict a complementary relationship with the site? I'm probably over-thinking it. I am honestly starting to think that a large percentage of this whole process is just randomness.
I feel this SO much. Just today I was complaining to my friend about the gap between invites and rejections. What is the point, it makes no sense! One of my sites for which I'm in limbo has their interview in two days, and historically sends rejections AFTER their interview date - why????Can DCTs just rip the band aid off so that I can go eat ice cream and gear up for phase II of the match.
I'm starting to wonder about how much this is random too...not that it makes me feel better about my interview-to-rejection ratio. I thought I had a good breadth of experience, but now I'm wondering if it was too broad for the specific area I'm aiming for? Did I not make a good enough case for how my breadth of experience ties in? Was one year in the setting I want not enough? Or was it too much, and now sites think there's nothing left for me to learn there? I really wish I could get feedback from TDs on why I was rejected from sites that I thought would be an excellent fit...
You're not a garbage candidate! I've been feeling the same way, and trying to convince myself of that too. As someone mentioned above, I think there may be a lot more randomness at play than we think. Assuming some kind of normal distribution, there have to be some poor souls who get stuck in the lower-end tail...I guess this year that's people like us. 😵Well yeah, the other factor is I'm a garbage candidate. Which to be fair, is entirely possible if not likely. Just got to accept that I got some interviews, and in the end will be where I be.
I'm starting to wonder about how much this is random too...not that it makes me feel better about my interview-to-rejection ratio. I thought I had a good breadth of experience, but now I'm wondering if it was too broad for the specific area I'm aiming for? Did I not make a good enough case for how my breadth of experience ties in? Was one year in the setting I want not enough? Or was it too much, and now sites think there's nothing left for me to learn there? I really wish I could get feedback from TDs on why I was rejected from sites that I thought would be an excellent fit...
Oh for real? For some reason I was under the impression it was improper to ask a TD why you were rejected, although I also have no idea where I got that idea. Thanks for the info! Good to know (although the propsect of actually asking is somewhat intimidating).My DCT has said that if we were rejected from a site that we thought we were a really good fit for, that there was no shame in reaching out to them and asking for feedback.
Quite honestly, I find the idea that some of this may be "truly random" reallyyyyy difficult to swallow. I understand and can appreciate the immense difficulty in selecting from a pool of highly similar, highly qualified candidates, AND I'ma need y'all to find something you like about one person better than the other, even if it doesn't work out in my favor. I don't even care what that thing is, I just need it to be something other than "let's flip a coin" because how unbelievably shi**y is it to be on the wrong side of chance after all of this hard work, time, and money? Maybe someday if I'm a TD I'll be singing a different tune. For now, though, I need y'all to reject me because of a typo or something.Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason and they are just splitting hairs. I was talking to someone about how they rank their applicants during the internship process and they even said there comes a point where they just chose randomly because there is agreement. It's such a crap shoot. I've noticed that some sites I felt a better fit gave me an interview and some that were a better fit did not. Who knows. Don't question your abilities as this is a game of selling oneself and not necessarily the exact experiences we had. For example, the majority of my hours (700+) are in a UCC but I highlighted my medical setting site (300 hours) incredibly and sold those skills as best as I could. Keep your chin up - and that goes for everyone else who feels these rejections hit hard!
Was this for the general or neuropsychology track? Probably another rejection incoming today.
Also, today is just NOT my day.
VA Northern California
Track: Neuropsychology
Rejection (12/5/17)
Mass email
Sanity: Welp, looks like I'll be tapping out on interviews. Man I did not fare well.
Full Site Name: WestCoast Children's Clinic
-Track: n/a
-Invite or rejection: Invite
-Date of Notification:12/05/17
-How You Notified: Mass email
-Interview Dates offered: This is dicey as the days of the week don't match the numbers but 1/8, 1/10, 1/17 I think. Edit* I have asked the training director to clarify.
Oh for real? For some reason I was under the impression it was improper to ask a TD why you were rejected, although I also have no idea where I got that idea. Thanks for the info! Good to know (although the propsect of actually asking is somewhat intimidating).
Congrats! Im starting to wonder if you and I go to the same school lolhey! i got that invite as well!
i ranked the choices based on the dates haha
When I got my first rejection, I replied and asked for some feedback on my application (our DCT also said this was an okay thing to do-- not all sites will respond but some might). That site did give me some feedback actually and it was a very nicely worded email. BUT. It did make me feel like I may have aimed too high in terms of what sites I applied to. the TD told me how my numbers were in comparison to most of their other applicants and so I felt really inadequate like WHY AM I EVEN APPLYING TO INTERNSHIPS?! hahaha. it was an overreaction on my part, but you know, it was my first rejection (and a site I really wanted) so i took it hard.
Oh preach!! My grad school has done their best to offer opportunities for practica but there have been limited opportunities here just due to location. At one of the internship prep sessions we had that was focused on essay writing we asked the presenter about this situation where we want to expand to a setting/population where our practica haven't given us experience. He sarcastically said, "Well you'll just have to tell the site how much you need them!" I mouth-vomited a bit...
Me too!!hey! i got that invite as well!
i ranked the choices based on the dates haha
When this is over you'll be looking forward to the internship you were meant to be at! And praying your football team stays solid. I'm assuming this is a good team if you're heartbroken. Hope it's not Cal. Jk.Man today is the worst...not only did I get a rejection but my football team's coach is leaving us to go to another school....ugh. Now what do I have to look forward to in the fall? Too many distractions today![]()
Site: Denver Health
Track: HRSA - Child
Invite!
Notification via mass email on 12/4 @ ~ 5pm
Interview dates: 12/18, 1/3, 1/11, and 1/23
PM'd you 😀@OliveFrank Yayyyyy I got this one too!! What date are you interviewing? I'm doing 12/18, feel free to PM me 🙂
and @tvc ! Yay! Shall we be whispering all the hashtags come interview day? Feel free to msg me if ya'll are flying in and need some advice on the least diciest areas to stay/transportation, etc.
If any of you are scheduled for 1/22 or 1/29 at Denver, would you be willing to swap with me for 1/8?Just an update - the Doodle for Denver VA went out this morning!
and @tvc ! Yay! Shall we be whispering all the hashtags come interview day? Feel free to msg me if ya'll are flying in and need some advice on the least diciest areas to stay/transportation, etc.[/Quote
are you from that area?
Tomorrow is my birthday and all I want is for all of you to get invites! (Unless you don’t want one for some reason)
are you from around that area?and @tvc ! Yay! Shall we be whispering all the hashtags come interview day? Feel free to msg me if ya'll are flying in and need some advice on the least diciest areas to stay/transportation, etc.
I fully recognize that you are listing today's date, 12/4, but for a split second when I read this and it said 124, I imagined that it was a count of days. Like, "Day 124 of internship madness. Blinds are tightly shut in the house and office. The only signs of life are a dripping coffee maker and the single mug on the table. Slowly running out of coffee and sanity."
Whhhaaaaat...my #peetzit party dream tattoo shop buddy is going to be there?!?! Well of course you are. Fingers crossed we get to meet in person!!Me four! I think everyone I see on interview days I'm just going to be scanning up and down mentally evaluating the likelihood that they're #forumfam.
Whhhaaaaat...my #peetzit party dream tattoo shop buddy is going to be there?!?! Well of course you are. Fingers crossed we get to meet in person!!
This is what I'm worried about! I haven't been able to figure out if my desire to know where I went wrong is genuinely from a place of "how can I improve" or if it's more morbid curiosity, and if it's the latter do I really want to know if it turns out that the problem was something that's not easily rectifiable?When I got my first rejection, I replied and asked for some feedback on my application (our DCT also said this was an okay thing to do-- not all sites will respond but some might). That site did give me some feedback actually and it was a very nicely worded email. BUT. It did make me feel like I may have aimed too high in terms of what sites I applied to. the TD told me how my numbers were in comparison to most of their other applicants and so I felt really inadequate like WHY AM I EVEN APPLYING TO INTERNSHIPS?! hahaha. it was an overreaction on my part, but you know, it was my first rejection (and a site I really wanted) so i took it hard.
lmao this is hilarious. but in all seriousness i have a countdown app that says we have 79 days and 5 hours until match day.. i'll call today day -79 lolThis made me LOL so hard! Here's to keeping our sanity, or at least getting it back after this brutal process is over!!
I meant to wish you happy early birthday yesterday but I don't think I did, so happy current birthday!! Hope it was full of good news and lots of your favorite things!Tomorrow is my birthday and all I want is for all of you to get invites! (Unless you don’t want one for some reason)
I wish there was a way to love thisI know I they are just words but : “you are kind, you are smart, you are important”
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I actually returned the metallic gold tassel today 🙁 . Now that I've started looking into and booking travel I was like "OMG THAT $3 GOLD METALLIC TASSEL HAS GOT. TO. GO, I WILL SAVE SO MUCH MONEY BY RETURNING IT." Then I went to TJ Maxx and bought a profesh tote bag...despite the fact that I had already purchased one from Target... so now I have yet another Target return. Because I make excellent life choices.
YESSSSS, love that you got an acupressure mat! I think it was #acupressurenation but I actually like #acunation better hahah. I find that my mat provides a lot of relief for my tension headaches and feet after I wear heels all day. Hope it brings you more relief too! Probably not as much as the Meowy Christmas leggings will, but hopefully close 😉