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Hi there, I'm 30 and considering applying to medical school. I wanted to be a doctor most of my life (since I was 5). I double majored in college in physics and biochemistry hitting all my premed prereqs, worked in a biophysics lab for 2 years, and got a good score on the MCAT. I volunteered in high school and in college and was involved in premed communities on campus. So theoretically, I could've gone to medical school at 22 immediately out of college (ie I was on that track).
Instead I got a job as an engineer. At the time, I was really excited about putting my physics degree to use and immediately jumping in to the real world. I also needed the money to pay off college loans and to live since my family has always struggled financially. I felt really lucky to get such a good job right out of college, but I still assumed I'd eventually go to medical school since that was my main interest. I started the med school application process at one point but some things happened in my personal life that were harder to deal with than I wanted to admit (this has been a common theme for me) and I felt too stressed to handle the application process, yet I believed I couldn't justify quitting my job just to apply (though I now realize I totally could have).
My job was extremely demanding, averaging 60 hours/week but at times 80+hours/week for months on end (ie no days off). After six years, I was really burnt out and miserable. I felt like I couldn't think straight when all my time and energy were being sunk into work that wasn't rewarding, so I quit. I've had a lot of awesome experiences in my time off including working in a few different businesses, picking up new hobbies, and traveling a ton internationally. I've also spent a lot of this time suffocating under my own depression and anxiety which have loomed over me since childhood. I've taken a lot of measures to build healthier thinking patterns and habits, but it's still a struggle. Family life has always been tough for me, and I've had a hard time distancing myself from it.
I feel like if I had a million dollars, I would go to medical school. But since I haven't worked in two years and have used up my savings in that time, and I still struggle with depression and anxiety, going back to an engineering job at least in the short term seems like a safer/more responsible choice.
So here are my questions, which I perhaps should only be looking inward to answer instead of asking on a forum, but I'm curious what all of you with experience on this path think:
If I haven't gone to medical school yet, does that mean that's not really what I want to do? Or is it just that in my personal journey, now is the right time because I've grown in the way that I needed to, even if I had all the prereqs at 22?
What are some steps I can take to gain clarity on whether this is the right choice for me at this time?
Is it crazy to think becoming a doctor is something that's still available to me given that I haven't done anything medically relevant since college?
Any advice/comments/comics/recipes welcome.
Instead I got a job as an engineer. At the time, I was really excited about putting my physics degree to use and immediately jumping in to the real world. I also needed the money to pay off college loans and to live since my family has always struggled financially. I felt really lucky to get such a good job right out of college, but I still assumed I'd eventually go to medical school since that was my main interest. I started the med school application process at one point but some things happened in my personal life that were harder to deal with than I wanted to admit (this has been a common theme for me) and I felt too stressed to handle the application process, yet I believed I couldn't justify quitting my job just to apply (though I now realize I totally could have).
My job was extremely demanding, averaging 60 hours/week but at times 80+hours/week for months on end (ie no days off). After six years, I was really burnt out and miserable. I felt like I couldn't think straight when all my time and energy were being sunk into work that wasn't rewarding, so I quit. I've had a lot of awesome experiences in my time off including working in a few different businesses, picking up new hobbies, and traveling a ton internationally. I've also spent a lot of this time suffocating under my own depression and anxiety which have loomed over me since childhood. I've taken a lot of measures to build healthier thinking patterns and habits, but it's still a struggle. Family life has always been tough for me, and I've had a hard time distancing myself from it.
I feel like if I had a million dollars, I would go to medical school. But since I haven't worked in two years and have used up my savings in that time, and I still struggle with depression and anxiety, going back to an engineering job at least in the short term seems like a safer/more responsible choice.
So here are my questions, which I perhaps should only be looking inward to answer instead of asking on a forum, but I'm curious what all of you with experience on this path think:
If I haven't gone to medical school yet, does that mean that's not really what I want to do? Or is it just that in my personal journey, now is the right time because I've grown in the way that I needed to, even if I had all the prereqs at 22?
What are some steps I can take to gain clarity on whether this is the right choice for me at this time?
Is it crazy to think becoming a doctor is something that's still available to me given that I haven't done anything medically relevant since college?
Any advice/comments/comics/recipes welcome.