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Rejection from Didi Hirsch
Does anyone know whether UNC-Chapel Hill Counseling and Psychological Services has sent out interview invitations yet? The APPIC directory listing says that phone interviews will be held from 12/6-12/19 but it does not look like anyone has heard from them. I'd be surprised if they sent out invitations only 4 days in advance...
Really bummed, just got rejected from Didi Hirsch. It was high on my list of sites I would like to attend and I was surprised by how emotional I just got after reading that rejection email. Have you guys been a little distraught after getting rejection emails or are you able to just kind of compartmentalize and not take it personally?
I also got rejected from Didi Hirsch. It was not high on my list but still does not feel good as my mind initially goes into a mode of trying to figure out what about my application they did not like, what would have made me a better fit, etc. I have to remind myself that this is not a helpful process and that it's okay to feel hurt by the rejections regardless of whether the site was high or low on my list because of how much work went into the entire thing. But I trust I will end up somewhere that hopefully feels like a good fit. But I think it is okay to feel both distraught and to try to not take it personally at the same time. You got this!Really bummed, just got rejected from Didi Hirsch. It was high on my list of sites I would like to attend and I was surprised by how emotional I just got after reading that rejection email. Have you guys been a little distraught after getting rejection emails or are you able to just kind of compartmentalize and not take it personally?
If it helps any, I have gotten a mix of invites and rejections and those rejections still hurt. The story I tell myself is that the site saw my application and experiences I wanted and decided that my training needs would be better met somewhere else (because all these sites know we are applying to a slew of programs). While I have to force myself to remember this, it has helped me a lot as a reframe for the inevitable, "Was I not good enough?" thoughts that come up!Really bummed, just got rejected from Didi Hirsch. It was high on my list of sites I would like to attend and I was surprised by how emotional I just got after reading that rejection email. Have you guys been a little distraught after getting rejection emails or are you able to just kind of compartmentalize and not take it personally?
Same for adult track. I didn't have a very good research match there, so I am not surprised.Rejection from Brown for the neuro track.
Same for adult track. I didn't have a very good research match there, so I am not surprised.
Has anyone heard from USC?
Their brochure states they will notify applicants tomorrow (which is different than the APPIC website, which stated by 11/30). We should hear tomorrow! Very excited about that site
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I think I was told that per APPIC policy all sites have to notify regarding rejections. Whether or not they adhere to that rule is another story 🙂Do all sites send out rejection notifications?
Has anyone heard from Metropolitan State Hospital or know when their new notification deadline is? On the appic directory it says their notification date was 11/22 but I know they extended their application deadline and I can't find if a new date was posted. I thought I'd check and see if anyone else might have heard from them!
Seven more to hear from...really hoping for some notifications today.
Thank you so much for writing this. I spent a good deal of time processing, and thinking about what you wrote. Although I am dissapointed, I can trust that for whatever reason I was not a good fit. We will all end up at the site we are supposed to be at. For now, I just need to surrender to this process and go wherever it takes me!If it helps any, I have gotten a mix of invites and rejections and those rejections still hurt. The story I tell myself is that the site saw my application and experiences I wanted and decided that my training needs would be better met somewhere else (because all these sites know we are applying to a slew of programs). While I have to force myself to remember this, it has helped me a lot as a reframe for the inevitable, "Was I not good enough?" thoughts that come up!
I'm so glad it helped! I'm a big DBT fan, so I'm constantly "Turning my mind" towards acceptance that I won't be a great fit at some of these sites and that doesn't speak to who I am or my worth as a future psychologist. We are all going to end up exactly where we need to be!Thank you so much for writing this. I spent a good deal of time processing, and thinking about what you wrote. Although I am dissapointed, I can trust that for whatever reason I was not a good fit. We will all end up at the site we are supposed to be at. For now, I just need to surrender to this process and go wherever it takes me!
Thank you for validating my experience. It is helpful just to know that we're not alone in this and its just kind of a wild ride until February! We will all end up exactly where we are supposed to be 🙂I also got rejected from Didi Hirsch. It was not high on my list but still does not feel good as my mind initially goes into a mode of trying to figure out what about my application they did not like, what would have made me a better fit, etc. I have to remind myself that this is not a helpful process and that it's okay to feel hurt by the rejections regardless of whether the site was high or low on my list because of how much work went into the entire thing. But I trust I will end up somewhere that hopefully feels like a good fit. But I think it is okay to feel both distraught and to try to not take it personally at the same time. You got this!
I'm sorry 🙁 if it helps there are a few sites I applied to in my initial batch that have December deadlines that are actually really great sites (that aren't as competitive too).Rejection from Captain James A. Lovell VA. So far I have 2 invites and 5 rejections. I still have several to hear back from, however my nervousness is telling me to apply to another site with a 12/5 deadline. I'm worried I applied to sites that are more competitive than I realized, many of which are in cities rather than rural areas.
I was mostly joking lol. But also I was interested in seeing if anyone had the nerve. Because if so, damn girl. Good for you.I probably wouldn’t do that unless the deadline was a later one and you were having problems due to the issues. I’m guessing that those who had earlier deadlines have already started to review/have sent out invites and wouldn’t get to your application. Also, with all due respect, it does not seem fair for those who applied to the sites with the original due date.
Same! I have no invites however so will likely be sending a few out todayRejection from Captain James A. Lovell VA. So far I have 2 invites and 5 rejections. I still have several to hear back from, however my nervousness is telling me to apply to another site with a 12/5 deadline. I'm worried I applied to sites that are more competitive than I realized, many of which are in cities rather than rural areas.
Does the program state any policy on interview scheduling? Sometimes that information is provided in the invitation email (if there was one), in their brochure, or on their website. Some sites state that once you have submitted your preferences and/or scheduled your interview you can no longer change the dates whereas others appear to be more flexible.So my Stony Brook interview was scheduled for the date I requested for the MGH CBT track interview. I haven't heard back from MGH just yet, so I'm wondering if I should contact the site and let them know my preference for interview dates has changed. Or would it be better to just wait and see?