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It has been a while since I posted here but this morning I was reading an article in anesthesiology news that made me stop and think. It's under commentary and titled "walk a mile in my shoes". (I could not find it on line to post the link).
Apparently some people at Duke have decided to create a day where family members of trainees get invited to a simulated day of their loved one stressful life as a resident or fellow so they can appreciate how tough it is, and understand the enormous pressure they are under.
The first paragraph is the most dramatic where the author describes her mom's horror realizing that her daughter is under so much stress:
"Beyond the alarms and tones of the OR, I turned to see my mom with her hands over her mouth, face scrunched and chest lifted in a sustained inhale as tears rolled down her flushed cheeks. She finally took a breath as my stepfather reached to comfort her with one arm, smiling at me all the while at the display of emotion and realization. I pulled my mask down and joined my parents, embracing them and holding tightly to my mom shaking shoulders..."
I really don't want to sound insensitive, and I do sympathize with this young doctor's emotions and her mother's reaction but I have to say I felt that the level of drama was exaggerated slightly, and that maybe the author has not realized yet that residency and independent practice of medicine are adult level activities where your mom may not be always available to comfort you and tell you how special you are.
I know this maybe unpopular opinion and I apologize in advance if it offends some people, but there is time in your life called adulthood and that's when you have to fly solo and learn how to land on your own.
This growth is crucial for you to be successful as a physician, but it seems that the current training programs have now become more about sensitivity and singing kumbaya than they are about building well trained solid physicians.
The results are obvious, we now have new grads that all they want to know during the job interview if it is guaranteed that they will be relieved promptly at the end of their "shift" and that when they get called to do a case on the weekend a CRNA will be always available.
OK, that's all I have, go ahead, start shooting 🙂
Apparently some people at Duke have decided to create a day where family members of trainees get invited to a simulated day of their loved one stressful life as a resident or fellow so they can appreciate how tough it is, and understand the enormous pressure they are under.
The first paragraph is the most dramatic where the author describes her mom's horror realizing that her daughter is under so much stress:
"Beyond the alarms and tones of the OR, I turned to see my mom with her hands over her mouth, face scrunched and chest lifted in a sustained inhale as tears rolled down her flushed cheeks. She finally took a breath as my stepfather reached to comfort her with one arm, smiling at me all the while at the display of emotion and realization. I pulled my mask down and joined my parents, embracing them and holding tightly to my mom shaking shoulders..."
I really don't want to sound insensitive, and I do sympathize with this young doctor's emotions and her mother's reaction but I have to say I felt that the level of drama was exaggerated slightly, and that maybe the author has not realized yet that residency and independent practice of medicine are adult level activities where your mom may not be always available to comfort you and tell you how special you are.
I know this maybe unpopular opinion and I apologize in advance if it offends some people, but there is time in your life called adulthood and that's when you have to fly solo and learn how to land on your own.
This growth is crucial for you to be successful as a physician, but it seems that the current training programs have now become more about sensitivity and singing kumbaya than they are about building well trained solid physicians.
The results are obvious, we now have new grads that all they want to know during the job interview if it is guaranteed that they will be relieved promptly at the end of their "shift" and that when they get called to do a case on the weekend a CRNA will be always available.
OK, that's all I have, go ahead, start shooting 🙂