Re-evaluating the MM, is it just the following?
Step 1
Be confident when opening
Step 2
Meaningful Conversation
Step 3
Arouse
winner, winner chicken dinner.. excellent and correct.
my last girlfriend was sorority girl who liked to chill out and lay around... thats what I wanted at that point in my life so it worked out. The one before her was a crazy little italian girl who cooked me and my friends dinner every night. We broke up over the summer because the long-distance (i was at school, she at home) was becoming too stressful. No big deal. I'm on good terms with both of them still.
truth be told I don't use M3 or any kind of scripted "game" anymore. I started out doing that but pretty much all of the core stuff eventually become integrated into my personality and I do it all naturally without even thinking. Also, I'm not the type you'll see at the bar every THur fri sat looking for the next lay. That was fun for awhile, but it gets old and its really neither hard nor fulfilling. I enjoy committed relationships now, and will continue to date here and there till I find someone I'm completely happy with. They tell you you can never be completely happy and everyone settles to a certain degree. This is a lie... if men do what men are supposed to do: be the leader of the relationship draw the line and not put up with any bull****, relationships can work. Thats not to say that woman are to be treated like children, thats just to say that you need to take charge and not be a needy little boy who thinks every girlfriend he has is the last one you'll ever be with. Truth is, woman want men to take the control. If she has to do it, and you have no clear limits, then she loses respect for you. Basically, she immasculates you.
Beautiful woman grow up their whole lives being told how pretty they are, how great they are, get their ass kissed by everyone and their soccer coach, etc. These girls know they have high value and will act accordingly. You don't date attractive girls by being "the nice guy." You date attractive girls by being masculine and powerful, with clear boundaries. I see so many people in relationships where the girl says jump and the guy says, "how high?" I'm sure some of the guys out there will agree.
A friend of mines girlfriend was pissed because one of his friends said something stupid to her. It was mean what he said, but the friend apologized more than once. The girlfriend proceeded to ignore all his calls, run out of the house when he came over to talk, basically made the poor guy chase her all over town. I kept telling him to ignore her since she's obviously being an unreasonable child and not to give her any validation. Of course he didn't listen. Why? Because Nice Guy Syndrome is a mental disorder and needs to be in DSM-V. A guy who lets a girl know when she is out of line and doesn't play her games is a guy that girl falls in love with.
I dunno why you guys waited so long to ruin your relationships. I took care of that during application. Screw waiting for an acceptance.
yep... mine was done-zo 1 week before my birthday last month, and I'm remaining free until June 1 when I put myself back on the market. Doesn't mean I won't have fun the in the mean time (with the little free time I do have)
Either way, I'm done arguing this point because nobody listens anyway. If you guys would rather mock this method and continue with your sub par relationships, then more power to you - Saves more of the good ones for the rest of us.
yeah I'm going to retire from this thread. Good conversation but we've reached an impasse.
Pianola, thanks for being a sport and sticking to your guns, I'm sure your boyfriend admires that about you
ar2, you're pretty hot ... I look forward to some dude down at NY med using game on you so you can come back on here and tell me how right I was and that you wanna toast me at your wedding.