I concur with the marital problems, perhaps not caused, but certainly exacerbated by the stress, hours away from home, possible depoyments etc from todays military.
Also, in another thread, someone said quite well, that in deciding to take HPSP, you have to decide between financial freedom and practice freedom. Well, it is a little more complicated than that, but it made me think of this analogy;
you have 2 people asked to lie on the ground (docs) while other people (admin) stick hot pokers in thier sides. Now one of the people on the ground (doc #1) is tied down and gagged, while the other (doc #2) lies there with the option to get up and leave and is allowed to talk as well. Lastly, both people (docs) are given the same treatment, same amount of pain etc.
Question: what person will be the most miserable?
Answer: even if both people stay on the ground, the person tied and gagged will be the worse off. That is one of the reasons military medicine is so much worse compared to civilian medicine. In the military you are tied down, have no voice, no options, no way to improve the situation for your patients, your family or yourself. where as in the civilian world, even if things got so bad (admin "hot pokers"), at least you have a voice and the ability to get up and leave. And do not forget, that unlike most ALL other military jobs, it is the responsibility of the physician for the outcome of the job (care of the patient). In most other military jobs, the ultimate responsibility is with the supervisor. In military medicine, the supervisor is usually a novice nurse.
For those in the decision stage, you cannot overestimate the value of your freedom in todays medical world (military or civilian for that matter).