So I met with my mentor recently, and she suggested that in addition to keeping up my clinical grades that I needed to become more extroverted so I would "shine" at my interviews.
On the Myers-Briggs that I'm sure we've all taken, I score about a 90% on the I/E scale. All in all, I'd prefer poking myself repeatedly with a stick than make idle chitchat. And in more tense situations (ie residency interviews) I become even more tongue tied and extremely self-conscious thereby not portraying myself in the most positive light.
Any suggestions on how to overcome this hurdle? My mentor's best suggestion was to "fake it til you make it"....
Well, we are who we are. So, keep that in mind and perhaps learn to embrace what type of person you are, rather than trying to change. However, there's always room for improving oneself. So, perhaps you could take some initiative to become a bit more open. Just don't expect, or try, to become the life of the party all of a sudden. That's unlikely to be too natural for you.
Now, have you considered that you may have some sort of anxiety issue?? General Anxiety Disorder? That's a possiblity, and if so, there's a ton of options for you to explore in order to brake away from that. But, if you're just someone that is a bit more quiet, then perhaps you COULD try to make an effort to not come off so shy during interviews.
Remember that people enjoy talking about themselves. So, if possible, you could do some research on what it is that any possible interviewer does, whether it be research or clinical interests. Showing interest in other people is a good start, and this can be expressed by asking them questions about themselves (within the boundaries of professionalism). Also, remember that you are a unique person that ALSO has interests and beliefs. So, don't be afraid to share that stuff with people.
Preparation is one of the most effective tools in any interview or presentation process (which tend to give many people at least a bit of natural anxiety). So, do some research. Also, spend some time thinking about what you could say. Or, try running down some possible intereview questions, and how you might respond to them. That way, you'll be less likely to clam up during an interview, and you'll find yourself able to readily regurgitate those previous thoughts of yours when under the gun. However, most interview that I've been on were very easy, and the interviewers were all very kind and relaxed people. So, don't worry exessively about that stuff. Good luck.