It's my impression that Republicans are more likely to "scold" someone if they deviate from the norm wrt sex, drugs, and employment.
Maybe you know some more permissive Republicans, but that was the context of my comment on personal responsibility.
I have been part of all the economic classes and I will explain it one more time. I am not looking for you to disagree or explain to me why I am wrong. I am just telling you this is how the working class feels and the vast majority of my friends/family is lower/middle class. I hang out with very little 1%.
Lets take the topic of gay marriage.
Middle/lower class - Most are not gay and will never be gay. Most will never understand how a man can be with a man. Truthfully, it grosses them out. When asked, they will tell you in private that they don't agree, don't understand, and kind of gross. BUT they don't care what people do in their personal life. They Do NO like to have it flaunted in their face and they HATE it when people demonize them for not agreeing with that lifestyle.
Dems - Scold and explain to them why they should accept and Agree that being gay is cool just like hetero. They push it in your face with month long gay months. Putting 10 different letters for every different group that wants to make it up. They walk around flaunting it.
People are born a certain way. Most people are born hetero. Yes, it sucks but seeing 2 guys kissing does gross people out NOT because they are bad/mean BUT because that is just how it makes them feel. Many Hetero are born that way, it is ingrained in their genetics. They are not being mean when that is just not their thing or it grosses them out. You don't need to brainwash them to feel a certain way.
So it just pushed the middle/lower class away when dems try to force them to feel happy/excited when they see 2 guys kiss. Its just genetics.
Just Like Porn. Some people love it, some people get grossed out. If you love it, good luck trying to make someone who gets grossed out to like/accept/watch it.
Its just as simple as that. It is not complicated. Hollywood is the classic group. They feel like they need to virtue signal and explain why being gay is so special while sitting in their 90210 having maids/cooks/drivers. Hell, if the middle/lower class lived in their 10 Mil homes, they would have alot more time to virtual signal. But they work 40-60 hrs/wk then come home for anther 40 hrs taking care of kids/cooking. They don't have time to tell someone else to think, they don't want to spend time having someone tell them how to think. They just want to be left alone and relax while watching TV. They want to sit back and watch a football game. They DON"T want to have football players kneeling, wearing pink patches, making virtual signaling signs when they get a Touchdown. They want to be left alone to just have 3 hrs of peace/relaxation without being told what to do or how to think which is what they get the other 100 hrs/wk.
I don't want/need you to explain to me why I am wrong. Why my thinking is wrong. I may be wrong but I live the lower/middle class most of my life and this is how we/they think I am just telling you how they think and how it is. So please don't respond to this even though I know it will kill you to not to respond b/c you have a deep desire to tell people why you are right.