It has been a year and I just wanted to update this thread for anyone who comes here in the future for advice... and believes that my situation may be similar to theirs.
I ended up choosing option #2 - I withdrew my application before it was verified (thus I am not a re-applicant), studied for the MCAT again, and retook the test. I ended up with a 12P - 9V - 12B (33) ... that's a six point increase! This score is still below my average, but I am very happy with it. I don't regret my decision to re-take for a second. Believe it or not, I have even added some really unique aspects to my application that have actually led me to some life changing experiences. I have matured, I have gained experience, and I have become even more confident in my desire to pursue academic medicine.
Now... NOW I can say that I will move forward with confidence. I guess that I would like to add that everyone has personal goals and expectations. Don't be too hard on yourself, but don't settle either. For the posters claiming that no one owes me anything, they are wrong: I owed this to myself. Always be the best you can be, work hard, and be happy with your accomplishments. If they don't quite match your expectations, try try again and don't give up until you are happy with the results.
We all come to moments of indecision in our lives. Trust yourself to make the right decisions under the loving counsel of friends and family.
If you are in a similar situation to where I was last year, feel free to PM me. I will leave you with some beautiful and honest quotes. 🙂
lol pretty cheesy with the quotes, but congrats and good job. Hope you have a successful cycle.