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Yeah, should have done it a while ago. Thanks everyone.
Yeah, should have done it a while ago. Thanks everyone.
Can we finally say the dirty word match and find out where Kaus is going?Block her. She's pond scum compared to you. You have more important things to worry about like NOT FAILING YOUR EXAM ON MONDAY.
#gostudy
Think of it this way. Currently in your life, what you have going for you is that you're working hard to kick ass on an exam which is putting you one step closer to becoming a doctor, where you can truly say you will have a direct impact in improving the quality of thousands of lives. You are pushing yourself towards a very tangible and achievable goal which (rightfully) is taking up a lot of your time in the process. In other words, onward and upward.
On the other hand, she's spending her time trying to cook up some half-assed way to get you angry, and basically reinforcing what a ****ty person she is. Clearly, she's lacking anything better to do.
Gotta say, you've got this breakup won by a mile. You two are trending in completely opposite directions. I know it's hard to let go of the fact that you were in a long term relationship, but you should thank your stars that you dodged an iceberg and jumped off that sinking ship.
Long time lurker that came across this thread and I thought I would make a post for some advice.
So I am currently in a long distance relationship and I will be matriculating at a school where neither my SO or I live. We have talked about whether we should move to one another or stay long distance. My main concern is that I know how time consuming my studies will be during medical school and I currently hope to match into a competitive residency. I feel that my SO doesn't realize how much time I will spend towards studying, and I don't know if he will be able to handle me not having a ton of time to do fun things. I am worried that I won't be able to please him and it is going to cause problems sooner or later.
What advice would you guys give me? How difficult is it to maintain a relationship during medical school? My SOand I are extremely compatible, but it kills me to make him move to me while I pursue medical school and he will once again have to follow me to residency. Would it save us both a lot of time to end it before making the step of moving together?
Thanks!
What advice would you guys give me? How difficult is it to maintain a relationship during medical school? My SOand I are extremely compatible, but it kills me to make him move to me while I pursue medical school and he will once again have to follow me to residency. Would it save us both a lot of time to end it before making the step of moving together?
I know that someone else already acknowledged what a great quote this is, but I wanted to thank you for posting it. Mad props if that was original, and thanks for posting it even if it wasn't. It gives me a little comfort about some stuff from the past, and I sent it to a couple people close to me who I think would feel comforted by it too. Thank you 🙂You lost someone that doesn't love you. She lost someone that loved her. Who really lost?
Block her. She's pond scum compared to you. You have more important things to worry about like NOT FAILING YOUR EXAM ON MONDAY.
#gostudy
Alright, drama filled update time. I've been feeling pretty good lately, ready to conquer the beast of medical school and move forward with my life. But last night she sends me a text (we haven't had any communication since she told me about him) saying that she's drunk and with this guy now. Keep in mind I also have a test on Monday and in no way want to be dealing with my cheating scumbag ex again. Her texting me made me absolutely livid at her and also the guy she was with, I tell her to put this jackass on the phone I want to have a few words with him (in hindsight definitely a mistake, I should have let it go, but I was furious and wanted to tell him off). She says he doesn't want to talk to me (obviously), and that's it.
Just absolutely crazy how you can think you know someone and be 100% wrong. This was someone I wanted to MARRY a month ago. I feel like I should be celebrating seeing what a bullet I dodged but at the same time I'm so pissed at myself for having such terrible judgment in the first place.
Long time lurker that came across this thread and I thought I would make a post for some advice.
So I am currently in a long distance relationship and I will be matriculating at a school where neither my SO or I live. We have talked about whether we should move to one another or stay long distance. My main concern is that I know how time consuming my studies will be during medical school and I currently hope to match into a competitive residency. I feel that my SO doesn't realize how much time I will spend towards studying, and I don't know if he will be able to handle me not having a ton of time to do fun things. I am worried that I won't be able to please him and it is going to cause problems sooner or later.
What advice would you guys give me? How difficult is it to maintain a relationship during medical school? My SOand I are extremely compatible, but it kills me to make him move to me while I pursue medical school and he will once again have to follow me to residency. Would it save us both a lot of time to end it before making the step of moving together?
Thanks!
"... don't wait for the good woman. She doesn't exist. There are women who can make you feel more with their bodies and their souls but these are the exact women who will turn the knife into you right in front of the crowd. Of course, I expect this, but the knife still cuts. The female loves to play man against man, and if she is in a position to do it there is not one who will not resist. The male, for all his bravado and exploration, is the loyal one, the one who generally feels love. The female is skilled at betrayal. and torture and damnation. Never envy a man his lady. Behind it all lays a living hell." - Charles Bukowski