Sorry to disappoint you "Whiskers", but you're wrong on most points here.
Although our practice has many offices, none of them are even remotely "rural", and the residency I directed was in a major city.
Sorry, but I'm a city slicker, not a country bumpkin.
Your second "assumption" is also wrong. I've had the greatest rapport with my residents, and I'm still in touch with residents I've trained over 15 years ago. I take pride in the fact that my graduating residents have always bought me plaques for my office in appreciation, thanking me for my dedication and friendship. I get calls weekly from my "old" residents just to say hello, sometimes to ask advice, sometimes to ask for "pearls" on how to pass the ABPS exam or sometimes to fill me in on great news such as an engagement, birth of a child, the opening of an office, etc.
I've always treated residents with complete respect and never ONCE demeaned or yelled at a resident in all the years I've been involved with training. I've had residents put sutures through my finger, and screw up royally, and I never ONCE raised my voice or treated a resident poorly or unfairly.
When residents visit my office(s), they are there to learn and not to be "slave" labor. I don't have them do my "scut" work. I have them there to learn about practice management, private office issues and to follow post operative patients. They aren't asked to perform menial tasks, so I believe you have me tagged wrong. I respect the residents and often discuss unique cases to see if they have any ideas that I may have "missed". They are smart and well trained, and those are facts that I don't dismiss.
I've never wanted or asked any resident to "kiss my butt". On the contrary, I've had residents and their spouses to my home for holidays, dinners, etc.
And I treat my office staff the same way. Although I've had office assistants leave due to pregnancy, retirement, career changes, etc., I have never had an employee quit and have only fired ONE employee in all these years (she stole money from patients).
I'll disappoint you again, because I'm certainly not old or "grumpy" and I don't like the taste of Geritol. I still compete is several sports on a pretty high level, so there's not too much "crust" build up.
Let's walk away from this trash-talk and understand something.
I'm not patting myself on the back. But the fact remains that I've been in this profession for a while now, and I've been active with the APMA, the ABPS, the ACFAS and as a residency director. I'm part of an extremely well respected, very successful large practice. And as per my prior posts, I've volunteered with community organizations, coached sports teams, etc.
If I was nasty, grumpy, old fashioned, abrasive, treated people poorly, controlling, etc., I can guarantee you that I would not have succeeded in ANY of the endeavors above.
However, when I answer questions on this site, I try to be "professional" since I'm attempting to help those who I believe will benefit from my experience and mistakes I may have made along the way.
And when you answer with sarcasm, cynicism and lol's, I have a hard time figuring out your motivation.
I don't come on this site to get into pissing matches, my goal is to provide some assistance based on my past experience. If that can help anyone, including you, than I'm happy.
Hopefully, some day you may understand that I'm not the enemy.