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I can't wait to move. :x
I suppose it helps that I'm familiar (nay - in love with) Blacksburg and the surrounding area, as I've lived there for the past 4 years of my life. But at home, with my family and my future in-laws living right around the corner, I'm torn between spending time with two families and it's a tremendous amount of pressure to put on a girl. x.x On the one hand I want to get to know my in-laws more; on the other, this is the last time I'll be living in my parent's house. That last part wouldn't bother me if not for the fact that it bothers my parents (who, of course, are torn between "Finally, she's moving on with her life" and "Oh god, she's moving on with her life!!"). And because of my awkward work shift, I hardly ever see them (and my teenage siblings - never; they're always out with friends), so the choice often comes down to do I spend these few hours with my in-laws or my family?
My mom broke down and cried the other day because I spent an afternoon at the gardens in which I'm getting married with my future mother-in-law rather than her, and I cried right along with her because I did not realize she missed me so much.
SO all this to say, getting out of here and back to cozy little Blacksburg with my one livingspace is something I am very much looking forward to.
And it certainly helps that we're using a wedding registry to furnish the place. 😉
I suppose it helps that I'm familiar (nay - in love with) Blacksburg and the surrounding area, as I've lived there for the past 4 years of my life. But at home, with my family and my future in-laws living right around the corner, I'm torn between spending time with two families and it's a tremendous amount of pressure to put on a girl. x.x On the one hand I want to get to know my in-laws more; on the other, this is the last time I'll be living in my parent's house. That last part wouldn't bother me if not for the fact that it bothers my parents (who, of course, are torn between "Finally, she's moving on with her life" and "Oh god, she's moving on with her life!!"). And because of my awkward work shift, I hardly ever see them (and my teenage siblings - never; they're always out with friends), so the choice often comes down to do I spend these few hours with my in-laws or my family?
My mom broke down and cried the other day because I spent an afternoon at the gardens in which I'm getting married with my future mother-in-law rather than her, and I cried right along with her because I did not realize she missed me so much.
SO all this to say, getting out of here and back to cozy little Blacksburg with my one livingspace is something I am very much looking forward to.
And it certainly helps that we're using a wedding registry to furnish the place. 😉