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Is it common for classmates to become romantically involved or do you guys mostly try to keep your academic and romantic life separated?
We have 13 (I think?) couples in our class of 100. So yes, 26% of our class is dating each other. And we're MS1s, so we've only been here for 7 months.
what about random hookups sans relationship
every botched hookup tends to have a ripple effect and creates awkwardness for others beyond the two that hooked up...so it messes up yo biz
As far as looks goes.....the ELEPHANT MAN was in that 50% too.In my first year of med school it seemed as though ~50% of the class had been involved w/each other, one way or another....... I found it really weird at the time (and still think it rather sad) that so many intelligent people would not realize the implications of making things weird for the next 3 yrs by having to be around someone they hooked up with (or did wrong in a one night stand). Go figure, I guess stress + tight quarters + shared battles + sexual attraction = hooking up, guess we are all just human....... and, in case you were wondering, I was in the other 50% (not that that is good or bad)
Yeah that reminds me of a friend who called himself "Brad pitt" . He however was the ugliest person i had ever seen.the medcest only gets weird around the end of first year when people start breaking up.
I would imagine it to be low because of the sheer disparity in age. There's alot of PhDs that are probably twice my age and the age gap seems to be pretty large. Alot of students also come in with already established relationships. I do hear about the occasional drama though. heres a question, anyone ever hear about M2s gettin it on with M1s? I doubt M3s have given that they're like ghosts. Or M4s with the youngers? lol
We have 13 (I think?) couples in our class of 100. So yes, 26% of our class is dating each other. And we're MS1s, so we've only been here for 7 months.
It's just like high school.
Sometimes it actually works out. One couple in my class is moving in together this summer. Another couple got engaged last month. Just a couple examples.
And sometimes it ends badly. I won't elaborate on that.
And sometimes it's just casual sex.
Personally, I don't ever see myself dating another med student/doctor. I'd probably go insane.
man, i'm gonna be pissed if i miss out on ms1 medcest. i already missed out on 9/11 sex. frickin 9/11, the world was ending, and i still couldn't get laid . . .
We have 13 (I think?) couples in our class of 100. So yes, 26% of our class is dating each other. And we're MS1s, so we've only been here for 7 months.
I don't see why it's such a big deal. The idea of a unified "class" at med school effectively ends after MS2, which is just about one year away. After that you'll be working with small groups of classmates with little time to socialize anyway.
what occupies ur time so much in 3rd year?
there have been some "makeout" hookups and a few "holycrapgirlskissinggirls" episodes which may or may not be considered "hookups" depending on how you feel about exhibitionists.
I wish this happened at my school. Especially during lecture.
I knew I should have been gunning in undergrad for those top 10 schools with their academic excellence and girl-on-girl sexual experimentation.
wait. im an ms2. there's less time to socialize in 3rd year? i thought the first two years were the hardest (and most time consuming). and since there arent as many tests 3rd, just one at the end of the rotation, there would be more time to socialize? what occupies ur time so much in 3rd year?
and in terms of hooking up. awkwardness spices up life.
medcest might not be the best of ideas, but here's my question: who the hell else are you supposed to date? granted i don't start med school till next year, but as far as i can tell med students hang around primarily with the people in their class.
medcest might not be the best of ideas, but here's my question: who the hell else are you supposed to date?
Like you're even at lecture to know if that happens.
Well they are not called winners....but they are called L*****!Exactly. I know many people come in w/ a pre-existing relationship, and some are married. But what about the rest of us?
Exactly. I know many people come in w/ a pre-existing relationship, and some are married. But what about the rest of us?
medcest might not be the best of ideas, but here's my question: who the hell else are you supposed to date? granted i don't start med school till next year, but as far as i can tell med students hang around primarily with the people in their class.
Well they are not called winners....but they are called L*****!
Well they are not called winners....but they are called L*****!
Also it really depends on what you mean by "hook-ups" in this case. There haven't been too many "sex-inclusive" hookups (I can think of maybe 4, most of which involve people in the aforementioned group) but there have been some "makeout" hookups and a few "holycrapgirlskissinggirls" episodes which may or may not be considered "hookups" depending on how you feel about exhibitionists.
and you know rumors are ALWAYS 100% true
We have a married couple in my class. They came in already married.
I'm not sure how they do it, cause they always go to class and they sit right next to each other all day long. Then, they go home and are together some more. It just seems like too much togetherness. I don't think I could do that.
Not quite. I'm constantly amazed by what my classmates say about me. Just this week I've heard (1) I asked out a classmate who turned me down, and (2) another classmate has been flirting with me by rubbing against me in the computer lab. Those stories are both news to me.