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Budd Chiari said:Well here I am, a 4th year med student. I'm supposed to be filling out my ERAS, yet I don't know what I want to do with my life.
It seems like I want to do everything in medicine and, at the same time, nothing at all.
Anyone else feel this way?
Accounting.Budd Chiari said:Well here I am, a 4th year med student. I'm supposed to be filling out my ERAS, yet I don't know what I want to do with my life.
MattD said:If you can narrow it down to just a couple of choices, you could always flip a coin......
Yes, I know, that sounds terrible, but it's a method I learned a while back to cut through all the fluff and confusion you can have in your mind and help clearly see what you would like to do most. Basically, you assign choice A to heads and choice B to tails, and flip the coin. Catch it and invert it onto your other hand quickly, keeping it covered. If you do this all without thinking too much about it, you WILL find yourself thinking "Please be B, please be B, please be B....." guess what, you just found out what you want. You don't even have to look at the coin. If you DID still find your reaction to be ambivalent, you can look at the coin. You'll either find yourself happy about the result, or disappointed, in which case you still just found out what you truly want and can disregard the coin. If you're STILL ambivalent about it, well..... go with what the coin says, cuz apparently you don't care one way or the other! 🙂
Sure this method has it's flaws, but it's been useful for me in the past, so here 'ya go!
cytoborg said:and it's such broad training that we have a huge array of practice options available to us...we can spend all day every day seeing patients if we want,
Most pathologists don't, but there are a few niches for it, if one should so choose.Wednesday said:How can you see patients all day? I thought that was part of the deal with pathology--no alive patient contact. That's very cool.
Wednesday said:How can you see patients all day? I thought that was part of the deal with pathology--no alive patient contact. That's very cool.
Anyway, I feel for you OP. My problem until about a day and half ago was that the only field I really enjoy, is surgical and the lifestyle scared me (I have a small baby at home). Unfortunately nothing else was appealing to me and I was really trying to talk myself into something a bit easier but all it was doing was depressing me and I felt like I just wanted to not do any residency at all. Now that I've decided that I am not someone who can choose for lifestyle alone and have decided to just go for it, I feel like a weight has been lifted and I am SO excited. I guess what I'm saying is that maybe there IS something you like more than other fields but for some reason you are trying to talk yourself out of it. (Like psych or FP because everyone looks down on it, or ENT because you don't think you'll get in, etc). It's worth exploring anyway. Good luck, this whole residency picking thing is maybe the most stressful decision to be made so far in this med school process.