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Poochlover11

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So, the apartment I am staying in has a couple living beneath me. They had a big old blow out a few weeks ago. Things seemed to quiet down until just this evening. The guy threw all the girls stuff out into the grass-including a hamster cage which he left open. Me and one of my roommates went to check it out. I found one hamster running around in the grass and the other was still in the cage. Clothes were everywhere; it was ridiculous. Luckily, the girl came and picked up her hamsters from us. I hope she gets out of that relationship. Anyone else have a similar story? It's sad when animals have to get involved in domestic disputes, but more importantly I hope things turn out okay for that girl.
 
A little different, but one of my neighbors got evicted... one of those ugly ones where the police show up and the landlord hires a moving company to remove all the person's belongings and puts them on the sidewalk. I showed up just as animal control was taking away her dog. Later that week while volunteering at the humane society I saw her dog up for adoption. Broke my heart, but I guess if she couldn't afford to pay rent then she couldn't afford to bail him out or keep him for that matter. So sad. Still gives me chills... I had never seen a scene like this before. Her dog did by the way get adopted eventually, after being put in a special training program because he was pretty stressed out and had severe separation issues (can you blame him?).
 
I once had neighbors who alternated between loud "intimate activities" and screaming fights. In another housing situation, I ended up having to call security about a violent situation which arose between a neighboring couple. Crazy neighbors are all too common, but if things escalate to the point of endangering anyone -people or animals- I think it's high time to call in the authorities.
 
A little different, but one of my neighbors got evicted... one of those ugly ones where the police show up and the landlord hires a moving company to remove all the person's belongings and puts them on the sidewalk. I showed up just as animal control was taking away her dog. Later that week while volunteering at the humane society I saw her dog up for adoption. Broke my heart, but I guess if she couldn't afford to pay rent then she couldn't afford to bail him out or keep him for that matter. So sad. Still gives me chills... I had never seen a scene like this before. Her dog did by the way get adopted eventually, after being put in a special training program because he was pretty stressed out and had severe separation issues (can you blame him?).

I had to do this a few years ago as a landlord. It took 9 months for the formal eviction. That was from the first legal action; which was 3 months after the last payment. There were 7 cats, 1 dog who lived in the yard, and at least 4 ferrets. It was all pretty disgusting, and the house was totaled (because they were being evicted, they trashed it.) I had to scrape up over 2 inches of used cat litter off hte kitchen floor...apparently they just kept adding more, and the cats started scratching it out and going around the box, etc. It was about a 25 sqft area of 2+ inches of used litter...in a kitchen. The worst were the cat urine/ferret feces drenched closets.

I hated doing it...but we couldn't afford to house people for free.
 
I have a horrible landlord story...

This is the short version. There were 6 of us living in a house during undergrad. We were led to believe we were renewing the lease for the next year, when 2 days before our lease was up our "landlord" (I use the term loosely because she was in no way, shape or form a landlord other than the fact her father owned the house and she liked to think of herself as almighty) told us she wasn't going to renew the lease and we needed to be out in 2 days, a Saturday.

My roommates panicked - even though I assured them there are laws against doing that and she can't just kick us out without warning - and they all moved out. I stayed, as did one of my friends, as we had one more week of finals left and decided to move out after our finals were over. Saturday rolls around and she shows up with her boyfriend and father, who march right into the house and start looking around and examining things. She starts screaming and threatening to call the cops if we don't get out... so I said, "that's a good idea" and promptly called the police. An officer shows up and tells them they need to leave and follow through with the legal aspects of evicting us if they really wanted to do that.

In the end I took her to court for refusing to give back my security deposit and won. I wouldn't usually do that but she took advantage of us all year (refusing to fix things, giving us a hard time about rent, etc). I hope she learned that she can't just do whatever she wants whenever she wants... but I highly doubt it.

I've never really had any bad neighbors. Our neighbors in that house were great, and the apartment complex I lived in had such friendly people as well.
 
Eight or ten families have moved in next door in the past fifteen years or so, with a lovely range of domestic violence, animal abuse and neglect, illegal activities, destruction to property, hate mail and harassment, the works. The saddest for me was always the poor animals, from the dog the owner beat with a belt whenever he felt like it and the kitten the children would tie into a plastic bag and throw off the porch, to the cattle that were abandoned in a tiny, grassless lot without water for a month in the coldest part of winter. Animal control in my area is completely ineffective, and refuses to set foot on the property without (a) concrete evidence of abuse or neglect (of course, they can't attain that proof without going on the property) and (b) the animals being literally on the brink of death. So you face the horrible dilemma of allowing the animals to starve/freeze/die of dehydration in the hopes that the authorities MIGHT intervene or covertly supplying food, water, and shelter. So, so, so frustrating.
😡 :bang: :boom: :diebanana: :cry: :barf:👎 🙁
 
My husband's parents live out in the boonies where it can get up to 120 degrees in the summer. One year as we were getting ready to leave my husband thought he heard kittens crying, when he peeked over the fence he saw 3 kitten (~ 7 weeks old) locked in a guinea pig cage with no water, no shade and a bowl of ant filled dry food that looked like it had been baked. Animal control doesn't really exist out there and it was already over 100 F at 9 am so he hopped over the fence opened up the cage and we took the kittens. Yes it was stealing and yes I would do it over again if we had to. They were horribly dehydrated and had upper respiratory infections and one more hour in that environment and they would have died. Instead we rehabbed them over a 2 month period and all three were adopted into wonderful homes.

There are times that breaking a law is the humane and right decision.
 
when i worked at an emergency clinic, we had interesting situations. like one case where a tiny yorkie with very little fur was put outside in a cage, in the sun - no shade anywhere near, and as a result it came to us as severely burned and barely alive. the lady finally admitted that she and her husband were in a fight and she left the house and forgot the dog. 😱
 
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The saddest for me was always the poor animals, from the dog the owner beat with a belt whenever he felt like it


Ya, throwing around a poor little hamster cage or beating a dog does not :nono: make you macho. Grrrrrr.
 
My friend told me about a person that lived downstairs from her swinging a small dog around in circles by the chain that was hooked to its collar... I'm also fairly certain the dog lived on a diet of 90% bacon (owner worked at a local 24 hour food place). She called animal control and they came out and gave them a warning or something, but nothing really changed.

I've either lived in the country (what neighbors?) dorms and no-pet apartments (though I had a cat, hah) and now in a house in a nice neighborhood where no one could get away with that crap. I'm glad.
 
Aww, those are such sad stories :/ I have a difficult time understanding people who are cruel or neglectful or forgetful of their animals.

My own personal story, which is tiddly winks compared to most of these, actually involve my current roommates. A married couple, the wife is overly dramatic, self absorbed, bad with finances, can't cook or clean, and generally lazy. The husband I am much better friends with, but he has a hard time staying motivated and is not so good with money. They have screaming matches CONSTANTLY... several times a week, sometimes every day.
So far, the best one was when the wife threw a bag of coffee beans at the husband and it opened in midair.
It was so childish, I nearly piddled myself, until I discovered that the wife did a bad job of cleaning up coffee beans and that my dog has a strong affinity to coffee beans.
On the bright side, all the dogs (mine and their 2 dogs) are registered via microchip under my name as well as licensed with the county under my name, and I take care of all the dietary and veterinary needs. So when they do go over the edge with their fights, I have custody of all the animals. (Until I took over, one dog had never been to a vet, both weren't fixed, and they had fleas, worms, and ear infections... )

Additionally, the wife kicked a giant dent in an expensive trash can and ripped a hole in the screen door. It gets annoying, but when the wife does crazy stuff like that, it becomes quite humorous from my perspective!
 
When we moved to NY, we took an upstairs duplex. We didn't realize the occupants below us were the daughter and grandchildren to the landlord. There were 3 kids, all named after motorcycles. The mother, at nearly 400 pounds, wandered around with the curtains open in her bra and underwear. She would sit on the exterior front steps in a T-shirt and underwear. The T-shirt did not cover the underwear. Her kids were neglected and constant physical fights between all of them.

Several times I or hubby would come home to police, who felt the need to question and challenge us. In our ethnically diverse neighborhood, the middle child hung a confederate flag in the front window. We had dogs who had to be walked and I would get comments from our neighbors. They would slide stuff under our personal front door to tease the dogs (like pipe cleaners and such...just disruptive junk.) One night, while I was out walking the dogs in 6" of snow and a howling wind, they locked the shared front door and jammed a pen cap stem into the lock and twisted it off. Hubby was out of town coming back via the airport. I didn't have a phone, money, etc. I sat in a bank ATM foyer (7 blocks away) with 2 dogs for over 4 hours till he got home and called the landlord. Then, 2 weeks after we bought my NEW car, my first new car, her kids went 'sledding' down the exterior stairs and LANDED on the hood of my car. We reported it, but it was our word against theirs. We gave up. $800 in damage. Then it snowed like crazy (several feet) while hubby was out of town. He was in the habit of snow shoveling out her vehicle as well. I couldn't be bothered, so I shoveled the entire sidewalk and shoveled my car out. She threw a hissy fit about how unneighborly I was (she had a teen ager and a tween living with her, plus her older daughter was home from college.)

Final straw was a few weeks later. Hubby was on another trip. I leave the stereo on all the time. Hubby flew out on a Thursday, and the stereo was on. 10 days later he came back, flight delayed, bags lost, home just after midnight. Stereo had been on at the same volume for all those days. At 4am she was pounding on our door screaming about all our ruckus and noise making...and how we better turn that d*#! stereo down before she came in there gave us what for and threw it out the window.

That was it. We arranged to move out the following week (I took vacation and packed us completly up.) We moved 6 car loads of stuff without them realizing what was up. Then the moving truch came on a Saturday, and the woman from downstairs came out screaming at us that we couldn't do this. That they would sue us and on and on. Hubby said he would discuss it with her mother, the landlord. She screamed that the landlord had given it to her brother and she was her brother's representative, and therefor we would discuss it with her (never understood the logic.) We refused, and finished moving.

When it was all said and done, because of state laws, they couldn't hold us to a lease that we didn't sign with the 'new' owners. And they had to return the deposit. they guy who came in for repairs and such during inspection was amazed at how great the house is. The original landlord asked why we were moving and we laid it on the line in detail, and she tried to deny some of it, but the repair guy had just redone a ton of stuff downstairs and confrimed that it was as bad as we said. Oh, and when they redid the entire place, including poly-ing the floors, they lived in a hotel. No one mentioned it to us....the off gasing made us both sick, and it damaged some of the finishes on our furniture and such. Really was a pretty unhappy place.
 
Harley was the younger of the girls. The boy was Triumph (went by Tri) and the older daughter was a foreign bike that I can't remember hte name of.
 
Harley was the younger of the girls. The boy was Triumph (went by Tri) and the older daughter was a foreign bike that I can't remember hte name of.

Oh please say it was Ural...
 
"Lady of the Night"??? What decade are you trapped in? 🙂
 
I have some pretty crazy neighbors right now. They're constantly having loud fights and screaming matches. Even the kids (who're in grade school) shout obscenities every chance they get. A month or so ago, the husband left a note on my door saying that the stairwell that we share "spells of dog" and that I need to guarantee him that he will always be able to park in front of the house, despite the fact that we have on-street parking and plenty of neighbors so I have no control of who parks where. Later that afternoon, he was out in the yard shouting about how "everyone sucks [his] d***." That night, he and his girlfriend ended up having a GIANT shouting match where she started screaming and I ended up having to call the police out. He was gone for awhile, which certainly made things peaceful around here, but now he's back again. Nice guy. 🙄

So glad I'll be moving away soon...
 
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