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I've noticed since coming to school that there have been several high pressure environments that my classmates and I go through, and sometimes the overwhelming/pressure-cooker environment of it all, can just cause one to be overcome with emotion.
There's a lot of public speaking, being put on the spot (and embarassed), and high-pressure/stress academics.
I've had plenty of private cry sessions, but I was always sure that I would keep it together when others were around. However, today, I was giving a presentation to a group, and I mispoke a few times, and I guess the embarassment of looking like a complete idiot in front of my peers (multiple times) just made me want to crawl into a hole, and I could feel the water welling up in my eyes. Thankfully, the floodgates didn't break...but damn.
Has anyone ever had moments where they just couldn't keep it together any more? How do you prevent it and not take criticism too personal? How do you handle the pressure of having to perform under a microscope in such a pressure-cooker type of environment?
Just wanted to hear some personal stories & advice, since I'm feeling kinda vulnerable right now....
There's a lot of public speaking, being put on the spot (and embarassed), and high-pressure/stress academics.
I've had plenty of private cry sessions, but I was always sure that I would keep it together when others were around. However, today, I was giving a presentation to a group, and I mispoke a few times, and I guess the embarassment of looking like a complete idiot in front of my peers (multiple times) just made me want to crawl into a hole, and I could feel the water welling up in my eyes. Thankfully, the floodgates didn't break...but damn.
Has anyone ever had moments where they just couldn't keep it together any more? How do you prevent it and not take criticism too personal? How do you handle the pressure of having to perform under a microscope in such a pressure-cooker type of environment?
Just wanted to hear some personal stories & advice, since I'm feeling kinda vulnerable right now....