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Hello! I'm kind of new here but i've been lurking around the forum for a few months now. So, I am currently at a cc in California and I want to transfer (Fall 2017) to a 4 year university. I entered cc Fall 2013 and changed my major 1.5 years ago. The problem is that I completely messed up in the 2015-2016 school year. I had a ~3.6 gpa by summer 2015 and by the end of Spring 2016 I had a 3.1 gpa.
So my mother was diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis along with other autoimmune diseases. Knowing this, I decided to become a part time student so I took calc based physics 1 and calc 2 only. I ended up with a C in physics and a D in calculus. This was mainly due to me being absent and not participating in group activities( because I was absent). She was doing a chemo treatment at the time, as well as other tests at a hospital that was an hour a day. She didn't have anyone else who could take her so I had to do it. Anyway, Spring came and I chose to retake calc 2 and took Gen chem 2 but dropped both because I was doing pretty mediocre and I didn't like the idea of just passing. I'm honestly depressed, I feel like I ruined my chances for vet school. The only way I can transfer Fall 2017 is by attending the nearest CSU. I'd most likely have to wait another year to attend a UC but I don't know if it even matters. I don't think other CSUs would even accept me because I had a terrible year last year. My father did end up leaving my mother and he never did his taxes so I lost my financial aid which is why I also did part time. I asked my sibling to help me out with her and they are. I really need advice on whether or not I should apply this year. To be honest, I was so scared last year because school made me think about the future but also how'd I miss out on my mom's last years of life. I felt so guilty and so I invested more time towards her and it shows 🙁. I didn't know where to post this and apologize for being all over the place but I'd really appreciate any advice on where to go from here.
I have volunteered/ worked before last year and I'm starting to do so this semester as well but last year was not productive at all. The only upside of going to a CSU nearby is that I'll continue to be with my mom but the doctors are already telling her to prepare.
Thanks in advance!
So my mother was diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis along with other autoimmune diseases. Knowing this, I decided to become a part time student so I took calc based physics 1 and calc 2 only. I ended up with a C in physics and a D in calculus. This was mainly due to me being absent and not participating in group activities( because I was absent). She was doing a chemo treatment at the time, as well as other tests at a hospital that was an hour a day. She didn't have anyone else who could take her so I had to do it. Anyway, Spring came and I chose to retake calc 2 and took Gen chem 2 but dropped both because I was doing pretty mediocre and I didn't like the idea of just passing. I'm honestly depressed, I feel like I ruined my chances for vet school. The only way I can transfer Fall 2017 is by attending the nearest CSU. I'd most likely have to wait another year to attend a UC but I don't know if it even matters. I don't think other CSUs would even accept me because I had a terrible year last year. My father did end up leaving my mother and he never did his taxes so I lost my financial aid which is why I also did part time. I asked my sibling to help me out with her and they are. I really need advice on whether or not I should apply this year. To be honest, I was so scared last year because school made me think about the future but also how'd I miss out on my mom's last years of life. I felt so guilty and so I invested more time towards her and it shows 🙁. I didn't know where to post this and apologize for being all over the place but I'd really appreciate any advice on where to go from here.
I have volunteered/ worked before last year and I'm starting to do so this semester as well but last year was not productive at all. The only upside of going to a CSU nearby is that I'll continue to be with my mom but the doctors are already telling her to prepare.
Thanks in advance!