My boyfriend is a very successful resident (he is at the #1 program in his very competitive specialty field), highly regarded by all who work with him, incredibly accomplished, with countless distinctions. For anyone else who is dating a partner who is a physician in training (or who is currently practicing), how do you deal with inevitable feelings of competition that arise in the relationship? This has been a significant source of stress for me, as he is better than me in every single way measured clinically, academically, socially and interpersonally. These feelings are especially difficult when held against the massive uncertainty and pressure that stem from the rigors of medical training. I'd be grateful for any lessons or insights from the SDN community.