My first degree was chosen under heavy pressure of my family. I was very young (much older than this young lady), and i honestly did not know any better. A year into the program i realized that i HATED my life. I rebelled against my parents, they kicked me out of the house, i found a full time job, place to live, and enrolled in the new program. It was a much better fit for me. Then i got my masters in the same field. TEN YEARS LATER i realized that this is STILL not what i want to do, and started working towards medical school. there is NO WAY i will EVER believe that a 14 year old girl made this conscious decision, based on her self-discovery and exposure to various life struggles. Her frontal lobe is not even fully formed. What i WILL believe though is that she does love medical field because of limited exposure that she had, but mostly, - because of everyone around her telling her that she is brilliant (which she definitely is), and she NEEDs to go to a medical school.
Maybe she will become a doctor and in the process will grow and mature along with her exposure to the profession, and realize that this is the best decision she could have made. Maybe she will cure cancer, or make a brilliant discovery of some sort. (i true hope that this is what will happen). Maybe she will realize after finishing medical school that this is not for her, and go pursue something else. What i do not want to happen to her is staying in the medical field because she feels like she HAS to, even though she my grow to hate it. That would be horrible. I am grateful that i was hard-headed enough to make the change, and i am SO HAPPY. But i have so many friends who weren't and are stuck in the profession that they do not want to be in.