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Hi there,
I'm a newlywed (7 months) and my problem is that I just don't feel sexy anymore. I really don't know why. Please don't tell me I'm just being superficial. I think that sexiness=confidence, at least for me, and I've had little of both lately. The usual things I used to do to feel sexy aren't working anymore, such as dressing sharply, putting on makeup, doing well in my job, etc.
I feel bad too as my lack of feeling sexy translates into me not wanting to have sex. I'm not sure what to do to stop this cycle. Any advice? I'm not under major stress and there's nothing bad happening right now, rather I do feel like I'm sort of stagnating at my mindless job and things aren't going well with my med school apps. But I'm not sure if these things alone are the cause of my lack of sexiness feelings.
Thank you,
BB
I'm a newlywed (7 months) and my problem is that I just don't feel sexy anymore. I really don't know why. Please don't tell me I'm just being superficial. I think that sexiness=confidence, at least for me, and I've had little of both lately. The usual things I used to do to feel sexy aren't working anymore, such as dressing sharply, putting on makeup, doing well in my job, etc.
I feel bad too as my lack of feeling sexy translates into me not wanting to have sex. I'm not sure what to do to stop this cycle. Any advice? I'm not under major stress and there's nothing bad happening right now, rather I do feel like I'm sort of stagnating at my mindless job and things aren't going well with my med school apps. But I'm not sure if these things alone are the cause of my lack of sexiness feelings.
Thank you,
BB