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Just curious, but how many of you anticipate meeting your future husband/wife in med school? Do you think you'll end up marrying another doctor?
Praetorian said:Balance is good. My fiancee has a degree in English.
Praetorian said:One of our cardiothoracic surgeons (a woman) is married to a mechanic at a local auto shop. Talk about a difference in pay scales.....
My wife is going to be a HS English teacher.BrettBatchelor said:Nope. I'm marrying a teacher.
isobel said:everyone here seems to think doctors are some crazy breed of very special people separate from the rest of the population... most doctors are very normal and becoming one isn't going to make you different than other people.
both of my parents are docs, together since 1967. very normal people. a neurosurgeon and an anesthesiologist. they supported me when i wanted to be an engineer. they're supporting me now that i'm going to med school. everyone loooooves my parents and they are less crazy that anyone else's parents i know. my dad is hilariously anal. my mom is a loveable scatterbrain.
i myself will be marrying an engineer.
Dave_D said:Seriously though I don't know.(And for those that care I'm 5'9")
BooMed said:And I'm marrying a lawyer. But when I met him he was just a hot computer guy who wore pajamas to class.
volcanicglass said:My sig. other isn't a doctor, but is in science. The question we've talked about is me being a Dr. and him maybe not having that title, and how our mail will say "Mr. and Dr. X." That really bugs him, but no way I'm not using the "Dr."! It's traditional for the woman to be ok with "Dr. and mrs." but when the gender is flipped it can be hard for people's egos to adjust.
DNAroolez said:Wow, you guys potentially sound like an episode of the Cosby Show. Good for you! I wish you luck with your four or five charming young children!
isobel said:my mom is a loveable scatterbrain.
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Chinorean said:For the girls--would you feel weird if you were a doctor and you married a HS history teacher? Do you think people would look at your marriage with a raised eyebrow because of the difference in status/money?
Caboose said:I am going to be very wary about it. Go to a coffee shop and start b.s.ing and one of the first things that comes out of people's mouths is, "So, what do you do?"
If you're a teacher, architect or whatever, it's a conversation piece, but don't you think it's a little different if you say, "doctor" or "lawyer"? I'm not looking forward to the ordeal.
Caboose.
funshine said:b/c the impression I'm getting is that you don't meet people, much less start relationships, in med school.
Bernito said:From friends at current medical schools I was under the impression that people are hooking up all the time.
isobel said:funny. my engineer boyfriend couldn't care less if i'm the doc. he'd be thrilled to stay home all day with the kids puttering around his own machine shop. our only issue is that he was a little sad when i said i'd keep my maiden name but the thing is, my maiden name shows where i come from and links me to my parents, who have the same name and are both doctors. being Dr. Boyfriends-last-name kind of takes the pride away from my family and gives it to his, who i only met a few years ago.
if your sig other got a PhD, he'd be a doc too.
isobel said:hooking up or having relationships?
Poety said:great sentiment humuhumu (are you hawaiian?)
Asherlauph said:like we both don't use credit to buy things-- we won't buy it if we can't pay for it, and we both don't live above our means...