That's the biggest bunch of crap I've heard in a long time. He doesn't have to prove anything to you and nothing I've read here constitutes tough love. It's about you and others believing the OP was rightfully dismissed. That's fine. You're allowed to think that and express it. But let's not pretend it's something other than what it is.
He doesn't have to prove anything to me. But, he must prove that he can succeed to his medical school. There's no getting around that.
This isn't T-ball where everyone gets a trophy just for trying. This is the major leagues where if your best isn't good enough, you get cut. Yeah you were a star in college, but now the ball is coming at you 95 MPH. Maybe it's just too fast for you to hit. Maybe you were choking up on the bat a little too high. Maybe you had trouble remembering the third base coach's signs. Only until you hone your skills in the minors, and prove your worth, should you be redrafted.
Failing multiple courses = Rightfully dismissed. End of story. It doesn't matter if there is an LD or not.
The questions to be asked now are: What services/counseling is available? What techniques can be used to overcome the LD? And most importantly,
do they work? And if not, what other factors aren't being considered?
I think this is where most of the disagreement comes from. There are those who are willing to accept the LD as the sole reason for failure. And, then there are those of us who ask, "Where's the proof?". Could there be other reasons for failure, in addition to the supposed LD?
I think it would be gross negligence not to consider additional factors. And, to blindly accept the LD story, in this light, is cruel in my opinion. There's simply too much at stake.
And, medical school is not the place to experiment. It's too hard, there's too much pressure, and it's too expensive.
The ideal plan would be to enroll in a local undergrad, take a full load, and implement new study strategies. Figure out what works and what doesn't. And only after succeeding there should medical school be reconsidered.