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So I'm a traditional student but with a husband who's much older than me and ready to settle down/start having kids soon. I'm in a bit of a pickle, because a situation has arose where money is weighing heavy on my mind. I've been planning on going to a DO school I love in a location I like (& my husband especially likes). He's already gotten a job at a hospital in the area, we've put in an offer on a house, etc. However, the house hasn't closed yet (but over a grand in earnest money has been paid). I've also paid a very expensive deposit at this DO school.
An issue has arose where an MD school in a location we both despise has made itself available as an option for us. We don't like the area, and the school I'm sure will be fine. My best friend goes there, which is a plus for me, but he would be miserable there. The problem is, the school would save me about 80-100k if I went there. This is a ton of money to dismiss too quickly. However, I don't want my husband to be miserable where we live. I've told him he can make the decision, but how much should I try to talk him into going there?
The money is definitely something to consider, and that's my only concern here....but I do worry about us struggling (relationship wise) more in a city we both dislike.
So...should I just ignore this cheaper school and be happier (but much more in debt) at another school, or try to convince him saving the money can't be overlooked. What would you do?
An issue has arose where an MD school in a location we both despise has made itself available as an option for us. We don't like the area, and the school I'm sure will be fine. My best friend goes there, which is a plus for me, but he would be miserable there. The problem is, the school would save me about 80-100k if I went there. This is a ton of money to dismiss too quickly. However, I don't want my husband to be miserable where we live. I've told him he can make the decision, but how much should I try to talk him into going there?
The money is definitely something to consider, and that's my only concern here....but I do worry about us struggling (relationship wise) more in a city we both dislike.
So...should I just ignore this cheaper school and be happier (but much more in debt) at another school, or try to convince him saving the money can't be overlooked. What would you do?