This is difficult for me to open up about, but I'm in a similar situation.
I am 30 now, but when I was 18 and 19, I was convicted of burglary and possession of marijuana, respectively. I grew up in a violently alcoholic family and left home at 13. I was a complete idiot and looked up to and hung around with gang members, so I did things to try to impress them. In the end, I was just being used, but I all but threw my life away in the process.
Since then, I swore to myself and to God that I would never do anything to harm another person again. These days, I am honest to a fault, and I can sleep at night.
I've gotten married, have raised children, and worked very diligently in everything I have attempted.
I went back to school and studied engineering physics. After 3 years of classes with a 3.9gpa, I discovered how much I love dentistry (I got to experience dentists in action through my business), and am now persuing that route. I am taking 18 credits of prerequisite courses now, and have straight A's so far while working 30 or so hours per week.
I have researched the state statutes, spoken to the board of health and dental licensure, and the DEA. The DEA's position is that if the state grants licensure, they would most likely not have an issue. The state says that there are no guarantees, but that this isn't the first time they've come across this. They say that they look at all of the circumstances, such as how long ago the offenses occured, whether the offenses were related to the practice of dentistry (fraud, practicing without a license, importing/distributing mass quantities of controlled substances), what I've accomplished since then, statements from friends (local dentists and college professors that are aware of my past), etc.
I am going to keep moving forward and try my honest best. I am planning on applying for clemency from the state so that I may have my civil rights restored. I may be taking this long journey only to be disappointed in the end, but if I don't try, I'll never know.
I realize that disclosure of this will certainly put my application on the bottom of the pile, but I am hoping that a very high gpa, good DAT scores, letters from dentists that know me and my past and still believe in me, and possibly clemency (although I still have to apply for this and I don't have any idea what the chances are) will get somebody to be willing to take a chance on me.
A guy can hope, right?