hellowhatsup
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Hello all!
First post here
I'm hoping to get a little bit of advice regarding my first year of dental school. After browsing around, I heard a lot of people say that dental school is a lot like high school. This really scares me because I had an awful time in high school. I went to a small private school, and there just happened to be nobody that I could connect with in my class, and I got left out of all the cliques and ended up isolated for four years. This really hurt my self esteem and confidence in social situations. However, I was able to struggle through and did very well academically, but I was miserable.
Honestly, I think I might have some kind of selective social anxiety (I totally just shut down) which only rears its ugly head specifically in peer to peer social interactions with new people or people I am uncomfortable around. I have no problem talking to people I'm comfortable with. I also smashed my interviews, and I talk/interact really well with patients when I dental assist.
In college I lucked out because I found someone that made an effort to be my friend during orientation, despite my initial awkwardness and avoidance. Once I got comfortable with him, I was able to branch out to the other friends that he had made, and I went on from there to have a good group of close friends. BUT all that likely never would have happened if that one person hadn't made the effort to get to know me initially.
Frankly I really don't like clique culture. I'd much rather have 1-2 close friends that I know have my back.
So to current dental school students I ask you this.
Is dental school really just like high school? How fast do cliques form, and how fast do they "close" typically? If I don't make the strongest first impression during orientation week, is it still possible to "break in" to cliques after they form? Is it feasible to have your entire support network (I'm going to a big Uni) outside of dental school if things don't work out? Lastly, what advice would you give someone in my situation?
I know this is a lot of questions, but if you have answers/insight to any they would be greatly appreciated!
Also, in case anybody is wondering if someone with this kind of social anxiety should really be going in to dentistry, I will state once again that I am quite good at structured conversation (at least in my opinion) like doctor to patient interactions, and after a lot of shadowing/volunteering and dental assisting I can safely say that I truly love (at least before I get exams crammed down my throat) the dental profession. I would just hate to be miserable for my 4 years of dental school because of social isolation.
Thanks for reading
First post here
I'm hoping to get a little bit of advice regarding my first year of dental school. After browsing around, I heard a lot of people say that dental school is a lot like high school. This really scares me because I had an awful time in high school. I went to a small private school, and there just happened to be nobody that I could connect with in my class, and I got left out of all the cliques and ended up isolated for four years. This really hurt my self esteem and confidence in social situations. However, I was able to struggle through and did very well academically, but I was miserable.
Honestly, I think I might have some kind of selective social anxiety (I totally just shut down) which only rears its ugly head specifically in peer to peer social interactions with new people or people I am uncomfortable around. I have no problem talking to people I'm comfortable with. I also smashed my interviews, and I talk/interact really well with patients when I dental assist.
In college I lucked out because I found someone that made an effort to be my friend during orientation, despite my initial awkwardness and avoidance. Once I got comfortable with him, I was able to branch out to the other friends that he had made, and I went on from there to have a good group of close friends. BUT all that likely never would have happened if that one person hadn't made the effort to get to know me initially.
Frankly I really don't like clique culture. I'd much rather have 1-2 close friends that I know have my back.
So to current dental school students I ask you this.
Is dental school really just like high school? How fast do cliques form, and how fast do they "close" typically? If I don't make the strongest first impression during orientation week, is it still possible to "break in" to cliques after they form? Is it feasible to have your entire support network (I'm going to a big Uni) outside of dental school if things don't work out? Lastly, what advice would you give someone in my situation?
I know this is a lot of questions, but if you have answers/insight to any they would be greatly appreciated!
Also, in case anybody is wondering if someone with this kind of social anxiety should really be going in to dentistry, I will state once again that I am quite good at structured conversation (at least in my opinion) like doctor to patient interactions, and after a lot of shadowing/volunteering and dental assisting I can safely say that I truly love (at least before I get exams crammed down my throat) the dental profession. I would just hate to be miserable for my 4 years of dental school because of social isolation.
Thanks for reading
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