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I wouldn't say I'm a gunner in the strictest sense. I love academic competition, publishing papers, and I love a good fight. I also like losing with grace. But I'm still extremely competitive. I love working with people, and I don't steal work or anything. Instead, I go above and beyond (for example in my physics classes I shared Latex-formatted note set with the entire class and everyone, including the prof, appreciated it) to make sure I know material well enough to teach others.
I know most gunners have this "secretive" mentality about how they should hide their accomplishments, but I honestly like to get recognition for things I've worked hard for. I don't fear that someone will "copy" me or potentially get ahead of me. Instead, I straight up share my techniques for how I managed to accomplish what I accomplished and hope that other succeed if they follow my advice.
I'm not a gunner, but I obsess over games and competitions, and I think it can be overbearing at times. To me, this premed thing has sorta been like that: One big competition. I'm not like traditional gunners in that I know the optimal way to win games of this nature is through collaboration. I'm willing to work in teams, but my competitiveness bleeds into the team. For example, I want my friend group of premeds to do better than some other group of premeds.
Is this healthy? My girlfriend claims that being pre-med has consumed my life and it's all I ever think or talk about in my downtime. She says I've lost the ability to make jokes and have a good time without it devolving into some prep session. What do I do?
I know most gunners have this "secretive" mentality about how they should hide their accomplishments, but I honestly like to get recognition for things I've worked hard for. I don't fear that someone will "copy" me or potentially get ahead of me. Instead, I straight up share my techniques for how I managed to accomplish what I accomplished and hope that other succeed if they follow my advice.
I'm not a gunner, but I obsess over games and competitions, and I think it can be overbearing at times. To me, this premed thing has sorta been like that: One big competition. I'm not like traditional gunners in that I know the optimal way to win games of this nature is through collaboration. I'm willing to work in teams, but my competitiveness bleeds into the team. For example, I want my friend group of premeds to do better than some other group of premeds.
Is this healthy? My girlfriend claims that being pre-med has consumed my life and it's all I ever think or talk about in my downtime. She says I've lost the ability to make jokes and have a good time without it devolving into some prep session. What do I do?