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Hey, so I posted a thread about whether or not to quit research lab a couple days ago and you guys gave me some helpful advice. Today, I realized this lab is not for me. I spent 8 hours during the weekend performing pcrs and running gels and they told me they were disappointed that I didn't do more. Furthermore, they're awful at communicating what they want from us. Just today, they told me they wanted us to perform our own experiments and stuff but they were disappointed we did not. I was so confused by this since they never told us to perform our own experiments and I don't know what they want from us at all (just venting at this point). So, I am planning to quit but I am in a sensitive position.
We have four members in lab: one grad student and three undergrad (including me). Next year they're losing the grad student and senior undergrad and are counting on the other undergrad and me to help train in the post doc that's coming. However, this just sounds awful and I want to leave. The PI is super strict and is depending on me to help out next year. I know the grad student and PI will be very angry if I leave (because of the time they spent training us) and I want to leave on good terms; how do I do that? I am a sophomore btw and have been in lab for 7-8 months.
HEY GUYS UPDATE ON THE STORY: I was able to quit lab today on good terms so this is for the people who are scared of quitting lab.
First, I emailed my PI for a meeting. During the meeting I told him this was a tough decision to make but I decided to change labs. I told him I could not make the time commitment needed, and I'm sorry for the inconvenience and finally I thanked him for helping me learn all these lab techniques. In response, he told me he understood the situation and if I need a LOR for any research fellowship he'd be willing to give it to me.
I then talked to the other members in lab and told them I had a talk with the PI and I'm planning on changing labs. Surprisingly, the grad student told me this is probably a good idea as this lab is special because it requires a huge time commitment for undergrads. She told me there are a lot of better labs out there too haha. All in all, don't be afraid of quitting lab! Most likely the PI and other members are already used to this sort of situation and will understand your decision. Thanks for all the replies and helpful comments on this thread!
We have four members in lab: one grad student and three undergrad (including me). Next year they're losing the grad student and senior undergrad and are counting on the other undergrad and me to help train in the post doc that's coming. However, this just sounds awful and I want to leave. The PI is super strict and is depending on me to help out next year. I know the grad student and PI will be very angry if I leave (because of the time they spent training us) and I want to leave on good terms; how do I do that? I am a sophomore btw and have been in lab for 7-8 months.
HEY GUYS UPDATE ON THE STORY: I was able to quit lab today on good terms so this is for the people who are scared of quitting lab.
First, I emailed my PI for a meeting. During the meeting I told him this was a tough decision to make but I decided to change labs. I told him I could not make the time commitment needed, and I'm sorry for the inconvenience and finally I thanked him for helping me learn all these lab techniques. In response, he told me he understood the situation and if I need a LOR for any research fellowship he'd be willing to give it to me.
I then talked to the other members in lab and told them I had a talk with the PI and I'm planning on changing labs. Surprisingly, the grad student told me this is probably a good idea as this lab is special because it requires a huge time commitment for undergrads. She told me there are a lot of better labs out there too haha. All in all, don't be afraid of quitting lab! Most likely the PI and other members are already used to this sort of situation and will understand your decision. Thanks for all the replies and helpful comments on this thread!
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