Hi, all. I am an army wife. My husbands dream was to attend med school for invasive cardiology, but is talking heavily about being a P.A. instead. He says he hears horror stories about med school and being an M.D.
I am attending college in pursuit of my masters in Accountancy at Auburn, and will sit for my CPA exam within 2 years. My husband will be separating from the Army in about 1.5 years. I will be 25 and he will be 30. We have been married for nearly 3 years, and only been together for 90 days (+/- a few). We are used to enduring difficult times. I am more than willing to endure the hard work and understanding it is going to take for him to get through med school, but he is saying he "knows he will never get to see his family/children" etc. and is now not feeling like he wants to do it. Mind you - This man had been through something I believe is way tougher than med school (There are a lot more Dr.'s than Green Berets in the world! Can't help my pride! ) But my husband continually says "At the end of the day I'll be gone before the Dr. will be if I am a P.A."...
Questions: Is medical school like this : Gone at 7 A.M., Return home at 9:00 P.M. every day all four years? How "bad" is residency? Is there any way a financial guru (Our basic bills (rent, power, car pmts, etc) are less than $360.00/month.. I pocket, invest, and max out his retirement) could help ease his mind about the cost of med school? Is there anything you can tell me about your experience?
If any P.A.'s or M.D.'s could please set all of these ideas straight or give me some insight I would be so grateful. Thanks in advance.
I am attending college in pursuit of my masters in Accountancy at Auburn, and will sit for my CPA exam within 2 years. My husband will be separating from the Army in about 1.5 years. I will be 25 and he will be 30. We have been married for nearly 3 years, and only been together for 90 days (+/- a few). We are used to enduring difficult times. I am more than willing to endure the hard work and understanding it is going to take for him to get through med school, but he is saying he "knows he will never get to see his family/children" etc. and is now not feeling like he wants to do it. Mind you - This man had been through something I believe is way tougher than med school (There are a lot more Dr.'s than Green Berets in the world! Can't help my pride! ) But my husband continually says "At the end of the day I'll be gone before the Dr. will be if I am a P.A."...
Questions: Is medical school like this : Gone at 7 A.M., Return home at 9:00 P.M. every day all four years? How "bad" is residency? Is there any way a financial guru (Our basic bills (rent, power, car pmts, etc) are less than $360.00/month.. I pocket, invest, and max out his retirement) could help ease his mind about the cost of med school? Is there anything you can tell me about your experience?
If any P.A.'s or M.D.'s could please set all of these ideas straight or give me some insight I would be so grateful. Thanks in advance.