I guess one of the reasons I did so bad my first year at college (finished with like a 2.8) is because I saw no love for medicine. Basically my parents forced me into it, in their culture, being a doctor is like being a god.
Anyways, I had some issues with it but now I see the beauty in it, guess it grows on you. My parents really messed up my high school years, sent me to a high school I did not enjoy (wasn't a high quality high school either) just because it had health sciences in its name. They made me miss out on a lot of my dreams, I wanted to play football but my high school did not have a program. When I told them about my dream of at least playing ball they yelled at me and made my life hell for it.
I had to suffer through borderline obesity because my parents would not let me go outside and play (ended up losing a lot of that weight), they kept me locked up in a room and forced me to study, they were paranoid, my parents did not send me to a normal public high school because in their opinion I would come out "spoiled". Ironically, the public high school I would have ended up in was of higher quality than the health sciences high school they sent me to, better college placement, better average SAT score, better opportunities for advancement and everything.
Thing is I think to myself, had my parents not been such, excuse the word because there is nothing else I can come up with, such BAD PEOPLE, I would have had a better life, found my own passion for medicine early on and would have either done better in college or done so good in high school that I would have made it to a top university.
I found my own passion for medicine but heavenly father forbid I raise my kids like those people raised me. Now I am cool with them but I seriously do not like how they tried to live their dreams through me. Dad could never be a doctor so he tried to push me into that profession. I am in it now and see the love for it but man things could have been so much better. Now I lift weights and run to keep myself in shape, parents yelled at me for it at first but I stood my ground and now they know what needs to happen.
On a side note, it hurts to see that kids from that same public school I would have gone to are much better prepared for college. Some of the stuff we learn in college they learned in high school. We did not even cover most of this stuff in high school. Magnet schools can be a joke.