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I hate to be 'that guy,' but pre-med/medicine isn't for everyone. I have had COUNTLESS friends who were 'smart, motivated, wanted it etc etc ...' and dropped it. If you know you want it ... go for it. However, it's not for everyone.
I dont understand what you are trying to tell her... no matter how movitivated, smart ect ect she can is or can be she wont make it?
Yeah - that's exactly it. Motivation isn't enough. Being smart isn't enough. Saying "I absolutely want to be a doctor, and nothing else," isn't enough. Sucks, I know, but some people are not cut out to be doctors. I'm not saying that the OP is one of them, but not everyone in this world is cut out for it.
However, my work ethic blows and I seem incapable of gaining a work ethic.
There is nothing that I want more - but I'm seriously starting to wonder if I am incapable of studying. I have taken an actual class on study skills, spoken to counselors about getting better study habits, stuck pictures/posters all over my walls about my future goal of becoming a doctor, and written a list of goals and posted them next to my desk. No help Is it possible to just not be able to study? I mean what the heck - I'm finally in the major I want, pursuing the career I want, and science has always been my favorite and best subject.
You're over-intellectualizing this. You don't need to learn how to do this - just sit down and study!! Don't make lists or posters about your goals - that just wastes time. Just sit down and do it.
If you truly want to be a doctor, you must learn discipline now. If you do make it into med school, pretty soon, it will be up to you to keep your **** together. No one will be watching over you as you study for Step 1 - it's up to you to figure out how to do that efficiently, and to make sure that you stay on schedule. No one will be watching over you during rotations - it's up to YOU to make sure that you stay on top of your reading/studying for the shelf exam (even if you've just worked a 16 hour shift). Without classes everyday/constant reminders, it'll be up to you to stay on top of things.
It's tough, but if you really want it - just buckle down and do it. Good luck.