Oh no, thread revival!
TLDR: this thread has been an important example of how "thin skinned" attitudes are misaligned with a physician's responsibilities. I fear that some of the current/future crop of med school applicants who have bought into the "political correctness" movement will negatively affect the practice of medicine, communication in the clinical setting, patient care, and health outcomes going forward for the reasons below:
I've been thinking a lot lately about how the influence of political correctness (or "respect" as some would put it) that seems to be permeating our undergraduate campuses will affect the future and current med school applicant pool, and what implications this will have for the future practice of medicine, communication in the clinical/hospital setting, and ultimately patient care and health outcomes. I stumbled upon this thread and have read ALL 13 pages. While my goal is not to provide more commentary specifically on content of the initial post (which has been beaten to death with fervent discussion), I'd like to note and respond to some sentiments and themes that have come as a result which I believe relate to the overarching issue of political correctness and have implications for the future practice of medicine and patient care.
From my point of view, and I suspect from the point of view of most schools and businesses, if you can't have a pleasant conversation with an interviewer, who is presumable well-intentioned and vetted by the school, without having to file a complaint about it, then you're probably not going to be able to walk into an exam room and relate well to patients either. Sure, there are certainly questions that cross the line, but I have yet to see one that really irks me, despite having read many of these "is this question legal" posts
As a physician, you will have to walk into a room, greet a patient, and establish a relationship within a minute or so, because a minute later you might be injecting them, cutting them, undressing them, or groping up inside them. Some of these patients might be drunk, high, rude, racist, sexist, or criminals, but you'll still have to take care of them. So, if a well meaning interview question throws you into a tizzy, some of us might conclude that you may not have the temperament to be a physician
I agree with the above posts by
@bc65 . Based on my patient care experience, being "thin skinned" around patients is unprofessional and counterproductive to patient care. If you are offended by a patient, that is your opinion which you are entitled to, but establishing a rapport and putting the needs of the patient in the forefront of your mind and consciousness needs to be paramount to being consumed with thoughts of offense, self-pity, or selfishness. If undergraduate students/med school applicants continue to be taught and believe that they are entitled to a "safe space" free from "microaggressions", etc., then I fear that those who apply to medical school who buy into this mindset will not be able to function in the clinical environment. This will be to the detriment of the future of the profession, and a shift from putting the needs of the patient first to putting the needs of the student first is bad for patients and likely back for health outcomes.
I'm appalled that you two are screaming sexism where none exits. You wouldn't know sexism if it punched you in the nose. What I see is the now classic Millennial thin skin on parade here. I have students who are like this and I swear, light passes right through them.
So develop a thicker skin or preceptors, residency directors and attendings will eat you alive
I feel bad for the future dean, program director and partners who will have to deal with your trumped up outrage over and over again. You are going to wear them out
I agree with the posts by
@Goro and
@Gastrapathy above - in addition to the harm that having "thin skin" may create in a clinical environment, it may also foster an environment where teachers are afraid to teach, and students aren't 100% focused on learning. Medical school is hard. Distractions are counterproductive. If a obsession with political correctness (or respect/safe space/microaggressions/whatever) is present in our future medical students, it will take time, energy and effort away from their self-directed learning. It may also negatively impact attending faculty's willingness to go the "extra mile" for their students if those same (future) students create an oppressive environment of fear for their teachers. If the political correctness movement transitions to medical school, the students who follow it and try to ensure that no active, passive, intended, or non-intended oppression happens to them may very well be acting in an oppressive manner toward those who want nothing more than to teach them and nurture them on their way to becoming physicians.
The goal in medicine is to say exactly what you mean in the most simple and concise way possible. Eloquence is unnecessary, and and often frowned upon (especially when you're talking to people that have been on 12+ hour shifts). If you speak to an attending or resident using the same structure you use on here, you'll likely get torn apart.
I'd also be interested to know how they would feel about asking a candidate how they would deal with discrimination. A question like: "Sometimes women in medicine face discrimination in the workplace from patients or even co-workers just because of their sex. How would you address a situation in which a patient was making sexist remarks or acting sexist toward you? What would you do if it was a coworker?" I'm curious because while it does touch on the whole sex/gender issue (which is obviously still relevant in medicine since some female docs are mistaken for nurses), the point of the question is to gauge professionalism.
Social reform, to me, comes from being an example to the rest of the world, and continuing to push forward while not blaming, or complaining. It doesn't come from questioning minor things, or running to HR or to the EEOC. It doesn't come from beating the fist on the counter and demanding because EVERYONE shuts down.
IF something is bad enough (rape, injury, blah blah blah) then yes, obviously HR and the EEOC are the appropriate avenues. In this particular case, the one that started this entire thread, it was none of that.
I agree with the above posts by
@Stagg737 - communicating well with your team and especially with patients is vital for a physician, and these are skills that candidates need to develop during medical school. If the OP and/or others are so consumed with the possibility of offense or unfairness from such a sterile environment (interview), I would be concerned to place the OP (and the concerned others) in a clinical environment as a medical student because (and I'd like to reiterate) such thoughts and ideals may take the focus away from patient care and put the focus on "medical student care", which is important but is not paramount to patient care in my opinion.
Also, to add on to what
@Ad2b said in the quote above, it is my opinion that spending so much time and energy on minor issues that an individual may find personally offensive detracts from fixing significant issues that still exist in our society under the umbrella of social reform.
Frankly, I'm a bit scared to be hired by someone like you one day. Let the hate comments commence again.
People "get offended" as a result of emphasis of one of their disadvantaged identities. So, while not "taking offense"-- that is, not responding to an action or comment or whatever that capitalizes on one's disadvantaged identity-- is often seen as personal strength, it also perpetuates the oppression of that disadvantaged identity. It's not about going into a tizzy, it's about recognizing oppressive social structures
Honestly my response is not as much directed towards OPs situation and more directed towards the "learn to deal with offensive remarks" tone of the replies on this thread.
And with that, I'm out. Really think this thread needs to get shut down
Regarding the above posts by
@twistedroses @Axes @carpediem22 , and others in this thread: I could have quoted many more of your posts, but for brevity I'll only state and comment on the above.
First, please understand that my comments (and I would venture the comments of others here) do not originate from hate, but rather from real concern about how you, my future colleages, will approach patients and the "un-sterile" clinical or hospital environment. I would like to see you succeed in your goals of becoming a physician, and I honestly believe that your attitudes surrounding this issue will be counterproductive to your success going forward. The good news is that attitudes can change, but it may be that these issues and feelings define you to a degree which would make change of opinion hard, but a choice that you could nonetheless make.
I'd like to humbly suggest the following: In your consideration of future events or actions that you deem harmful to you in any way (offensive, racist, sexist, etc etc), before formulating your plan for action for how to respond, take a moment and step into the shoes of the person or group who you feel is offending you before "taking offense". While I appreciate
@Axes detailed and well written account above, think for a moment about who is perpetuating the oppression of that disadvantaged identity. Maybe the oppressive structure is the same structure that is telling you that you need to be offended. As you note, you can choose to not to "take offense" even if you are offended. Maybe hypersensitivity and political correctness will create a safe utopian society for all, or, maybe hypersensitivity and political correctness will result in a society that is safe for no one to express ideas that will move society, culture, and (yes) science and medicine forward. I'm more scared of the latter than I am confident of the former.
Finally,
@carpediem22 I'm glad this thread was not shut down because the opportunity to read everyone's comments and posts helped me formulate (as much as I could online) and idea of where you are coming from as I endeavored to place myself in your shoes to better understand your point of view. The ability to have this discussion with varied opinions is something that is important to me, which is exactly why I am fearful of political correctness and the potential censorship it can result in.
Thanks for taking the time to read this, if you have more time here's some reading for y'all, somewhat related:
(previously posted)
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/09/the-coddling-of-the-american-mind/399356/
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/09/thats-not-funny/399335/
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...or-dismissal-according-to-some-yale-students/
and
https://www.thefire.org/yale-students-demand-resignations-from-faculty-members-over-halloween-email/
and
http://hlrecord.org/2015/11/fascism-at-yale/
EDIT: and this one too:
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/27/opinion/black-tape-at-harvard-law.html?_r=0