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There's not a lot of juicy argument threads at present, gotta take what I can find
Look, I'm a woman. But even I am not offended when someone asks "Why choose medicine...you know...as a woman?". It is simply more common for women to take care of the kids and choose less demanding, more sympathizing careers such as nursing or teaching than men. Men are more aggressive and emotionally resilient, so they are more equipped to handle the pressures of medical school, residency, etc. Evolutionarily speaking, they are more motivated. No one cares if a hot girl is living with her parents doing nothing but Netflix... but a guy? Lol he would be a joke. Watch at 1:05, 1:43 here . If that was my boyfriend, he wouldn't flinch. He would flick off the car and take control. (getting a bit off topic here, sorry) Do you want them operating on your body? Men and women ARE different (sorry, Target), so there WILL be completely rational objections to people like me.
This is it boys. This is what a 8.5/10 troll looks like. Well done
Let me guess, because he's a male? Please don't take the bait ladies.Sorry if it came across as trolly, I'll delete the post if you want.
teach me how to do make up like that
The discrimination is revealed in the question by the questioner.
Asking a question in an interview implicitly suggests that is being used to determine your qualifications for the position.
I wouldn't ask men applying for teaching elementary school if they've considered being a male elementary teacher
Why should I?
Because the children's parents will think they're chimos?
I assume men applying to teach school are aware of their maleness (men's peckers don't seem to slip their mind much) as much as women applying to be doctors are aware
Men don't seem to forget they have a penis for a second, or that I have boobs, maybe that's the problem
If as you argue, a group is a minority (and women are a minority?) do you think they need much reminding?
Right I totally forget that I don't belong in a field because I'm a woman till I'm asked about it
Everyone's argument is that this question somehow matters to ask the "disadvantaged" class if they've considered their "disadvantage."
is prejudice
Ask the person how they deal with diversity and what adversity they've faced
If they're a black female midget, I bet they'll have a good answer, and you won't have to make it obvious you're taking their black female midget status into account
Like I said, right or wrong, you have to at least sound like you're not a bigot anymore.
From my point of view, and I suspect from the point of view of most schools and businesses, if you can't have a pleasant conversation with an interviewer, who is presumable well-intentioned and vetted by the school, without having to file a complaint about it, then you're probably not going to be able to walk into an exam room and relate well to patients either. Sure, there are certainly questions that cross the line, but I have yet to see one that really irks me, despite having read many of these "is this question legal" posts
As a physician, you will have to walk into a room, greet a patient, and establish a relationship within a minute or so, because a minute later you might be injecting them, cutting them, undressing them, or groping up inside them. Some of these patients might be drunk, high, rude, racist, sexist, or criminals, but you'll still have to take care of them. So, if a well meaning interview question throws you into a tizzy, some of us might conclude that you may not have the temperament to be a physician
I'm appalled that you two are screaming sexism where none exits. You wouldn't know sexism if it punched you in the nose. What I see is the now classic Millennial thin skin on parade here. I have students who are like this and I swear, light passes right through them.
So develop a thicker skin or preceptors, residency directors and attendings will eat you alive
I feel bad for the future dean, program director and partners who will have to deal with your trumped up outrage over and over again. You are going to wear them out
The goal in medicine is to say exactly what you mean in the most simple and concise way possible. Eloquence is unnecessary, and and often frowned upon (especially when you're talking to people that have been on 12+ hour shifts). If you speak to an attending or resident using the same structure you use on here, you'll likely get torn apart.
I'd also be interested to know how they would feel about asking a candidate how they would deal with discrimination. A question like: "Sometimes women in medicine face discrimination in the workplace from patients or even co-workers just because of their sex. How would you address a situation in which a patient was making sexist remarks or acting sexist toward you? What would you do if it was a coworker?" I'm curious because while it does touch on the whole sex/gender issue (which is obviously still relevant in medicine since some female docs are mistaken for nurses), the point of the question is to gauge professionalism.
Social reform, to me, comes from being an example to the rest of the world, and continuing to push forward while not blaming, or complaining. It doesn't come from questioning minor things, or running to HR or to the EEOC. It doesn't come from beating the fist on the counter and demanding because EVERYONE shuts down.
IF something is bad enough (rape, injury, blah blah blah) then yes, obviously HR and the EEOC are the appropriate avenues. In this particular case, the one that started this entire thread, it was none of that.
Frankly, I'm a bit scared to be hired by someone like you one day. Let the hate comments commence again.
People "get offended" as a result of emphasis of one of their disadvantaged identities. So, while not "taking offense"-- that is, not responding to an action or comment or whatever that capitalizes on one's disadvantaged identity-- is often seen as personal strength, it also perpetuates the oppression of that disadvantaged identity. It's not about going into a tizzy, it's about recognizing oppressive social structures
Honestly my response is not as much directed towards OPs situation and more directed towards the "learn to deal with offensive remarks" tone of the replies on this thread.
And with that, I'm out. Really think this thread needs to get shut down
Isn't the "political correctness movement" distinct from the "outrage over microaggressions" phenomenon? The former merely dictates how we should treat people: you can strive to be politically correct without becoming irate when a patient does not reciprocate. It is easy to see how illness and the unpleasantness of medical treatment can wear a person down.
Lol I am so bored, sorry.not this thread again
I think they're the same, the PC movement is really a "no tolerance" initiative, demanding we remove people for any wrong move regardless of their intentions. See: demanded resignation of claremont mckenna dean a little ways back, for poor phrasing that referred to minority students as not fitting the typical school mold, but in an email that was pledging to give more support to minorities. I don't think anyone in their right mind could look at what happened and think the dean was actually a racist, but that doesn't matter. And people like to write this off as a very vocal but very small minority...still seems concerning when they're loud enough to cost people their jobs.Isn't the "political correctness movement" distinct from the "outrage over microaggressions" phenomenon? The former merely dictates how we should treat people: you can strive to be politically correct without becoming irate when a patient does not reciprocate. It is easy to see how illness and the unpleasantness of medical treatment can wear a person down.
I think they're the same, the PC movement is really a "no tolerance" initiative, demanding we remove people for any wrong move regardless of their intentions. See: demanded resignation of claremont mckenna dean a little ways back, for poor phrasing that referred to minority students as not fitting the typical school mold, but in an email that was pledging to give more support to minorities. I don't think anyone in their right mind could look at what happened and think the dean was actually a racist, but that doesn't matter. And people like to write this off as a very vocal but very small minority...still seems concerning when they're loud enough to cost people their jobs.
@mcworbust , what have you done?
I think they're the same, the PC movement is really a "no tolerance" initiative, demanding we remove people for any wrong move regardless of their intentions. See: demanded resignation of claremont mckenna dean a little ways back, for poor phrasing that referred to minority students as not fitting the typical school mold, but in an email that was pledging to give more support to minorities
While I would not myself be of the opinion that the dean was racist, I don't know what others feel or what their opinions or perceptions are of that dean, and while I feel they are entitled to their opinion (they are offended), it was their choice to act on their opinion (take offense) which I disagree with. I would assume that they took offense because they did not take a moment to put themselves in the dean's shoes and realize that they did not need to act as they did in response to something that initially offended them.I don't think anyone in their right mind could look at what happened and think the dean was actually a racist, but that doesn't matter
I was just so bummed I missed out on round 1 that I thought I'd start round 2 lol...@mcworbust , what have you done?
You sick bastardI was just so bummed I missed out on round 1 that I thought I'd start round 2 lol...
Ah but here people including myself will disagree. If I don't care at all about my employee's race, reject a black job applicant, and they then accuse me of racism, I can say that I am not actually racist and have it be objectively true.Just because I don't think I am a racist does not mean I am not a racist
Ah but here people including myself will disagree. If I don't care at all about my employee's race, reject a black job applicant, and they then accuse me of racism, I can say that I am not actually racist and have it be objectively true.
That is, what they infer or perceive can be wrong. They can think it was a racist act. But the act itself being racist is dependent on the intent of the agent, and for that I have first-person authority and cannot be wrong.
I myself am not convinced, and taking the action to say "racist!" about that case is also something that makes no sense to me, but i can't know introspective judgements of everyone so for others their first person authority may say that their thoughts are qualitatively more justified than someone else's... and idk where that leaves me lolBut my issue was only in clarifying that racism is defined by intent rather than perception, which is why it makes no sense to say "racist!" in response to poorly worded but supportive communications. I can't see how anyone would be convinced of racist intent in that case
well it depends on several factors including how tired you might be when choosing employees and how aware people are about their own bias. try taking the IAT, you might be surprised
If the OP and/or others are so consumed with the possibility of offense or unfairness from such a sterile environment (interview), I would be concerned to place the OP (and the concerned others) in a clinical environment as a medical student because (and I'd like to reiterate) such thoughts and ideals may take the focus away from patient care and put the focus on "medical student care", which is important but is not paramount to patient care in my opinion.
Also, to add on to what @Ad2b said in the quote above, it is my opinion that spending so much time and energy on minor issues that an individual may find personally offensive detracts from fixing significant issues that still exist in our society under the umbrella of social reform.
First, please understand that my comments (and I would venture the comments of others here) do not originate from hate, but rather from real concern about how you, my future colleages, will approach patients and the "un-sterile" clinical or hospital environment. I would like to see you succeed in your goals of becoming a physician, and I honestly believe that your attitudes surrounding this issue will be counterproductive to your success going forward. The good news is that attitudes can change, but it may be that these issues and feelings define you to a degree which would make change of opinion hard, but a choice that you could nonetheless make.
I'd like to humbly suggest the following: In your consideration of future events or actions that you deem harmful to you in any way (offensive, racist, sexist, etc etc), before formulating your plan for action for how to respond, take a moment and step into the shoes of the person or group who you feel is offending you before "taking offense". While I appreciate @Axes detailed and well written account above, think for a moment about who is perpetuating the oppression of that disadvantaged identity. Maybe the oppressive structure is the same structure that is telling you that you need to be offended. As you note, you can choose to not to "take offense" even if you are offended. Maybe hypersensitivity and political correctness will create a safe utopian society for all, or, maybe hypersensitivity and political correctness will result in a society that is safe for no one to express ideas that will move society, culture, and (yes) science and medicine forward. I'm more scared of the latter than I am confident of the former.
You're right. Wasting time and energy on any instance of microaggression is counterproductive to any success I will have in life and as a future physician. I'd just like to note that I was not really angered/consumed with unfairness by the interviewer's questions; I simply asked whether this was an appropriate question to ask or not in a medical school interview. The hypersensitive and inflammatory remarks were made mostly towards another SDN user, which I have long since realized was wrong and apologized for.
Since this thread was necrobumped, I'd like to update that I was accepted to this school and will be matriculating in the Fall. I thank you all for your comments and will take these advice (and the advice of many others on this thread) to heart as a medical student and future physician.
No, I'm a germaphobe.Your post kind of reminds me of the ending of the Grinch, can we all hold hands now?
Congrats on your acceptance!!!You're right. Wasting time and energy on any instance of microaggression is counterproductive to any success I will have in life and as a future physician. I'd just like to note that I was not really angered/consumed with unfairness by the interviewer's questions; I simply asked whether this was an appropriate question to ask or not in a medical school interview. The hypersensitive and inflammatory remarks were made mostly towards another SDN user, which I have long since realized was wrong and apologized for.
Since this thread was necrobumped, I'd like to update that I was accepted to this school and will be matriculating in the Fall. I thank you all for your comments and will take these advice (and the advice of many others on this thread) to heart as a medical student and future physician.
I actually don't think its that much of an unfair question. I mean, I got a question like, "name three most influential women in your life that led you to medicine" and I just talked about a few mentors who worked for west coast adcoms, local clinics and AACOM etc whom I've networked with over the years. I think they just want to make sure you understood the nuances of being a female physician and some difficulties they still are yet to face in certain GME paths with disproportionate gender spreads.I was just asked by an interviewer whether I have considered what it would be like to be a physician as a female. The follow up question - have I ever shadowed a female physician before? I thought it was illegal to ask such questions during interview.
I normally wouldn't think too much of it, but the entire interview was unpleasant and it seemed like more of an attack than well intentions.
Would it be appropriate to notify the admissions office? Or should I just let it go?
Ok I just noticed you cited MFing Alex Jones...like, really bro?Yea you're probably right, I'm not a part of either movement so I will defer to others who have a more intricate understanding. I still maintain that both issues/stances may be counterproductive in the clinical environment and may have a negative impact on patient care (these are things I am worried about/my opinion, not absolute truths, to be clear)...
And then there is this:
http://www.infowars.com/university-...t-is-a-politically-incorrect-microaggression/
Wtf.
You're right. Wasting time and energy on any instance of microaggression is counterproductive to any success I will have in life and as a future physician. I'd just like to note that I was not really angered/consumed with unfairness by the interviewer's questions; I simply asked whether this was an appropriate question to ask or not in a medical school interview. The hypersensitive and inflammatory remarks were made mostly towards another SDN user, which I have long since realized was wrong and apologized for.
Since this thread was necrobumped, I'd like to update that I was accepted to this school and will be matriculating in the Fall. I thank you all for your comments and will take these advice (and the advice of many others on this thread) to heart as a medical student and future physician.
Oh snap looks like that guy is crazy conspiracy theorist, my bad lol... should have just cited the actual UW-Milwaukee website where they said "Politically Correct (PC) has been added as a dismissive term".Ok I just noticed you cited MFing Alex Jones...like, really bro?
Isn't the "political correctness movement" distinct from the "outrage over microaggressions" phenomenon? The former merely dictates how we should treat people: you can strive to be politically correct without becoming irate when a patient does not reciprocate. It is easy to see how illness and the unpleasantness of medical treatment can wear a person down.
My fault for not reading the original post before assuming they were asking if "planning on having kids" or "settling down and having a family as a female physician" question. Saw the original post and was like " lawl nevermind"