We all care about you man, just chill
Read this ( I wish I had the opportunity to be a part of this than move here!)
(Wish I had known better!!)
In the history of independent India, the battle of Kargil (1999) will be remembered as the fiercest and the most valiant of operations conducted by the Indian Army. "Operation Vijay" launched on May 26th concluded on the morning of July 18th with the restoration of the sanctity of the Line of Control; undoubtedly a watershed from any strategic perspective. The battle of Kargil will not only be written in golden letters in the annals of history, but will also be remembered as one of the toughest battles fought in the mountains, where courage and bravery made the ultimate difference. The battle of Monte Casino fought during the Second World War, said to be one of the toughest mountain warfare operation appears to be dwarfed before the battle of Kargil. For their sustained display of most conspicuous personal bravery and junior leadership of the highest order in the face of the enemy during the Kargil operation, Capt Vikram Batra and Lt Manoj Kumar Pandey were awarded the PVC. Rfn Sanjay Kumar and Grenadier Yogender Singh Yadav too received the PVC for exhibiting gallantry of the highest order. Maha Vir Chakras were awarded to Maj Rajesh Singh Adhikari, Maj Vivek Gupta, Maj Padmapani Acharya, Capt Anuj Nayyar, Capt N Kengurujay and Lt Keishing Clifford Nongrum for laying down their lives in the highest traditions of the Indian Army. Maj Sonum Wangchuk and Nayak Digendra Kumar too received the MVC for exhibiting exemplary courage, during Operation Vijay.
-- Indian Military Academy
Guess what, a lot of the men who died were "bachelors" 😉 You are freaking married, worry about better, important things.