I totally agree that just because we havent seen them, doesnt mean they are not out there. The reason I made the assumption that they were in our galaxy is because of probability. Based on what we know thus far it seems likely that IF life arises, it should arise in our galaxy given its vastness. This is a field that is difficult to prove anything because we cant exactly run "experiments" and test hypos so we have to play our odds. As for coming out of a black hole, not even light has the velocity to escape a black hole once its inside the event horizon (and nothing moves faster). Although it is very interesting to note that even tho nothing can escape a black hole, they do LOSE MASS. How can that be possible if nothing can escape?? The answer is Hawking radiation. Energy spontaneously interconverts into matter, when this happens a matter and anti-matter particle are formed and essentially immediately destroy each other.HOWEVER, if one particle formed inside the event horizon and the other outside of it, they would not be able to do so. Thus that one particle that is able to escape the black hole appears to us as radiation, hawking radiation, named after the guy who came up with the great idea, Steven hawking. RIP.
Sorry, i digress.